ProPoints Ruth Is On A Mission! 22.5/50

Thanks Carly!

Glad the curry was yummy!

Ruth
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Ohhhh darlin - its true what they say ... it all happens at once .... why cant one horrid thing happen one at a time (or none happen ever) ... but i bet your a strong one and all you need to do is give your mum and nan massive hugs to show your there ... Im sending you hugs and strength ......... xxxxx p.s it made me chuckle that you earnt an ap walkin to the chinese (hehe) xxxxxx
 
Ohhhh darlin - its true what they say ... it all happens at once .... why cant one horrid thing happen one at a time (or none happen ever) ... but i bet your a strong one and all you need to do is give your mum and nan massive hugs to show your there ... Im sending you hugs and strength ......... xxxxx p.s it made me chuckle that you earnt an ap walkin to the chinese (hehe) xxxxxx

Its so true- things normally come in 3s!
I will give my mum & nan as much support as I can today :)

Thank you for all of the support!

Trek to the Chinese- Gotta earn something for all of those pps!!! :p

Ruth
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Day 59 Diary- Going Back To Basics PLAN TIME!!!!

Breakfast:

Fruit Salad = 0pp
Milk Allowance = 1pp
Tea x2 = 0pp

= 1pp

Lunch:

Mixed Fruit = 0pp
Coffee = 3pp (Leeds Train Station)

Boots Shapers Items
Shapers Chicken Caesar Salad = 5pp
Sparkling Shapers Drink = 0pp
Shapers Potato Hoops = 3pp

= 11pp

Dinner:

Friends 21st... Lets see!!!!!!


Activity Points
Walk around Whitby = 10AP
Walk to Chinese & Back = 1AP
Walk to Work & To Train Station = 3AP

= 14AP 0 used

Ruth
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Budgeting LOTS for the 21st tonight as my friend Jenny is American and has SCRUMMY FOOD! Will be good though I promise!!!! ;)

YUM YUM Love Shapers Food!!!!!
 
have a great night Ruth ...you deserve it hun x
 
Thanks everyone,

Been to see my Gran it was awful when my mum popped out to see the nurses she cried told me she wanted to die :( I didn't know what to do!

Why is life so hard?

Ruth
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I'm so sorry to hear that. My uncle has a cancerous brain tumour ATM and it's terminal he is in a hospice and cries alot as he knows he is going to die. It's so hard.

But all you can do is be there for them and support them. Hopefully your gran will get better! I suppose it's the word cancer that scares everyone so much as there is so
Much stigma attached to it. She is in the best possible care and the cancer doctors are so much help, if you need help with coping with cancer in the family there is help with Macmillan cancer etc online!

Keeping your grandma in my thoughts!

Big hugs!! Xx
 
starkissedx said:
I'm so sorry to hear that. My uncle has a cancerous brain tumour ATM and it's terminal he is in a hospice and cries alot as he knows he is going to die. It's so hard.

But all you can do is be there for them and support them. Hopefully your gran will get better! I suppose it's the word cancer that scares everyone so much as there is so
Much stigma attached to it. She is in the best possible care and the cancer doctors are so much help, if you need help with coping with cancer in the family there is help with Macmillan cancer etc online!

Keeping your grandma in my thoughts!

Big hugs!! Xx

I'm so sorry to hear about your uncle! Hugs and prayers go out to you and all of your family. I think I may have a look online thanks for the info! It is the stigma attached tp it! My gran has been left not knowing what's going on for 3 weeks now and its ruining her mental health. She has a permanent stomach upset as her blood pressure is so low as theyre draining fluid from her stomach its making her so ill! The Drs are having a meeting about it on Monday. She has lost 2 stone in 3 weeks as she can't eat anything.

To top it all off my aunt yvonne (fu**ing super bi***) is coming up tomorrow from torquay for my cousins graduation on Tuesday in Liverpool. She's not coming up for my gran she's just 'passing through' on her way to Liverpool and it will be a 'fleeting visit'. I could smack her around the head, she won't come back up north after this weekend and she doesn't work so she has plenty of time!

She has already accused my mum of not doing enough. My mum has visited 4 times at least every week, got palliative care provisions in place and everything! How dare she!!!

Where the hell are some peoples morals!

Ruth
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Massive hugs to both!

Try to enjoy party petal xx
 
Thanks both of you! Still off out but really not in the mood :(

Ruth
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Awww hun! Put on the tunes! Doll urself up and have a fab one! Hugs xx
 
CarlyLanky140 said:
Awww hun! Put on the tunes! Doll urself up and have a fab one! Hugs xx

Aw Carly you've proper depressed me now all the talk about putting on tunes and getting dolled up :D i sooooo need a night on the town. Instead it's a DVD and night on the sofa....................same as usual!!

She's right Ruth, do just that and enjoy darling!

You up to much Carly?

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Getting ready for a night out is my favourite part sounds sad but I love getting dolled up with a bottle of wine :) I need a night out!!!
 
Yeah sometimes that's the best bit if the night all getting ready together blasting the tunes drinking wine!!!! I try not to get too tipsy to or my make up ends up looking like a clowns lol!!! Xx
 
Ohhhh your poor gran Ruth ... sometimes people say things in an act of frustration that they really dont mean ... its such a hard time for you all and i bet your gran feels like shes let everyone down ... as for your aunt ... oh my days ... thats guilt when they accuse others of stuff ..... she knows full well the support you all give your gran, so to avoid her feelin bad .. she tries to make other feel bad ... you and your gran knows the truth .... sending hugs and loves xxxxxxxx
 
I am extremely drunk and off to bed night night

Ruth
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Hope u had a fab night!

Tracy I went to my friends allegedly for DVDs but ended up watching her faff on her comp. don't ask lol x
 
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