Unbelievable! I can't believe someone would be so jealous that they'd risk throwing away your friendship, but it seems they are. If it was me I think I would tell my husband,grit my teeth, let him say 'I told you so' and then move on together. It seems like you are already using this as motivation but also remember to focus on how happy and proud of yourself you have been so far, are now and will be when you are at your goal weight. x