I understand where you are coming from Ruthy!! I find when I choose a green day, I then want 'red stuff' and when I choose a red day.....yes you've guessed....I want green day food! I think thats just our mind playing tricks on us...ie, because we can't have it, we want it!
What I try and do is use my HE b's. So if I have a red day, I have potatoes/wholemeal pasta as my he b's and if I have a green day, I try and have the meat options as my he b's. This way, when its all on your plate, it looks like a 'normal' meal... ie meat, potatoes and veg etc.
When I first discovered SW, many years ago now, I was a vegetarian and only ever had green days. I still managed to have good losses and reached my goal many times!! (yes, like most dieters, I regained the weight and so the cycle begins!!)
However, in recent years, I started eating meat again but always seemed to have more green days still because I couldn't get my head around red days and like you, found I ate less, felt hungry and deprived and couldn't wait for the next day so I could go green again!
Then, after losing weight on a low carb diet (yes, I've tried them all!!) and learning all about carbs, I then couldn't get my head around green days(!) so I concentrated more on planning red days and found once I got into the swing of things, there was as much available on red. I also have found that probably due to my constant yo yo dieting over the years that consuming large amounts of carbs just doesn't work for me anymore.....so red days it is for me, maybe with the odd green one thrown in here and there.
Sam
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