So apparently my comments the other day about someone who was annoying me incensed a couple of people enough to write and tell me that "those kind of comments aren't what a support forum is about" and that "the poor woman is trying and doesn't need to be put down by these types of comments" and that I appear "smug"
FYI the person I was talking about is a friend...and I use that term very loosely...in real life. She is not on this forum. She picks up and drops our friendship as and when it suits her. She is a narcissistic, self absorbed, materialistic person that I wonder what on earth I have in common with any more. She never once asks about me, how my life is going...all conversations are about her. She has been "dieting" for about the past 15 years...and is still the same size. She blames her glands and big bones...nothing to do with what she eats. She will verbally attack anybody who makes any helpful suggestions about losing weight as she knows it all. I sit and smile and nod my head and let her spout on all about herself and how wonderful she is and say nothing as there is no point. If I choose to vent on my diary then it is my choice. You know absolutely NOTHING about the situation, about her or probably about me so please keep your opinions to yourself. And for the fact that you think I am "smug"...I have made it clear on here just how hard I have been finding life the last few months. I may have achieved a healthy weight but I know that my current food choices are far from healthy and have freely admitted it. I did put the effort and willpower into losing my weight however..no one gave me a magic pill! I have made no secret of hiding the fact I am suffering from depression so I hope you feel really good for sticking the boot in. And people who use the phrase "I'm only saying" are always being passive aggressive and nasty.
This is my diary and unless I'm breaking the rules I will continue to post what I want.
Drawing a line under this and moving on!