i had a cesarian too, but to be honest the damage was done with my first son, i am actually quite small frame and when i was pregnant with him i got absolutely huge, when they broke my water they said i had a lot of excess water so that didn't help, the stomach got bad then, i have lost weight periodically since then, once size 10s hung on me but the stomach sag was still there.. just smaller. i know if it was ever going to go naturally it would have then! its pretty sickening it stops me from wearing normal clothes, i just so want to wear a normal pair of jeans and have my tummy area showing with a nice flat zip line but unless some doc takes pity on me that is never going to happen. now, its worse i have a bit of a bingo wing at the top of my arms so always wear a short sleeve at least, and i have a saggy top of my thigh which stops me even going swimming because i can't bare anyone to see it.
honestly, i am so ashamed of my body that i never let anyone see any of it!