5lb for me this week! Yay
@catcrazy... what's the treat going to be?
MM
Lol...i really pushed the boat out and had 1 custard cream biscuit to dunk in my black no sugar coffee! shocking huh!INTERVENTION!!!!
Hi CC,
Please do not take offense at what I am about to write -- I writing this with a nice pat on your back and not yelling at you.
One: you have done a great thing and deserve something significant to acknowledge it, and two:
Your treat SHOULD NOT have been FOOD related.
We are not only trying to lose weight, but learn how to maintain our losses. We need to learn how to treat food as fuel and not use it for rewards, comfort, compensation, entertainment, etc.
For example, I have Zumba shoes coming in the post for my "getting under 150 pounds" treat. A bit extravagant, but, as I have blister from wearing my trainers to Zumba and they tend to stick to the floor, I need them. I could get injured and so they a good investment for health reasons in more ways than one.
I am planning on a spa day (again, a bit more dear) for after I get back below my lowest 2010 weight (148).
However, some of my mini goal rewards might be things like making DH take DD to the cinema and I can have long soak in the bath with no one in the house! lol
Have you heard of Judith Beck's book The Beck Diet Solution? There is a thread on CD maintenance discussing this book. I am working it through it and feel that it can give me the tools to maintain my losses after I get back to goal.
MM
Lol...i really pushed the boat out and had 1 custard cream biscuit to dunk in my black no sugar coffee! shocking huh!INTERVENTION!!!!
Hi CC,
Please do not take offense at what I am about to write -- I writing this with a nice pat on your back and not yelling at you.
One: you have done a great thing and deserve something significant to acknowledge it, and two:
Your treat SHOULD NOT have been FOOD related.
We are not only trying to lose weight, but learn how to maintain our losses. We need to learn how to treat food as fuel and not use it for rewards, comfort, compensation, entertainment, etc.
MM
Hi, not going to take offence at all.
I think the pure fact that I didn't rush to the jaffa cakes (I LOVE jaffa cakes), chocolate wafers etc shows that I don't treat food as a reward to be honest. I only mentioned the custard cream because that is the only thing i did differently than I normally do.
As for mini goal rewards...got no money to be buying stuff at the moment but i will treat myself to a cross trainer when finances are looking better and red letters are not popping through my door.
I'm calorie counting but in such a way that no food is off limits (have severely cut some foods as just not worth the calories, biscuits lol), this is for life and life is too short to be yo-yo dieting, depriving myself of foods, bingeing because i'm not allowed this etc.
I easily maintained my weight for 20 years, (underweight as a teen but stabilised aged 20) my weight gain (7 stone in 2 years) was due to multiple high dose courses of steroids and stupidly forgetting to cut my portion sizes as my mobility decreased (from 4-6 miles walking a day to hardly being able to get up my stairs!) It took me a long while to realise why I was gaining weight but I guess not knowing why i couldnt breath was more pressing in my mind! Emphysema was finally diagnosed. Now i've got used to smaller portions etc I don't think i'll have too much of a problem maintaining once I get to goal. I don't comfort eat, I comfort clean...I reckon the ex used to wind me up deliberately so I'd blitz the house :8855:
Wow, my history in a nutshell.
Once again, no offence taken
Hi CC --
Comfort Clean! lol I am going to try to replace my food addiction with a Cleaning One! Solid advice.
You have to be very organised and disciplined to make calorie counting work. I'm impressed.
Sorry to hear about your respiratory illness. Has it improved at all with treatment?
MM
I think if you can make calorie controlled work, it is best. A VLCD diet reduces your leptin levels and makes regaining a whole lot easier. I am hoping that what I have read about these levels eventually returning to "normal" is true, but in the meantime I have to move it, to lose it and keep it off.
I hope you had a good day.
MM
@CC -- That is a great loss! Well done!
MM