Thank you
It was almost two years ago now and I am with a new company but I worry that the managers will end up being like him because it was so out of the blue.
He always spoke highly of me and even said at one point that he wished there were two of me. Then he just turned on me. He was so manipulative, even phoning my dr's surgery to demand to speak with my dr because she had signed me off with anxiety related stress.
I had panic attacks , one huge one on fathers day, the first time i had ventured outside since it happened, i visited my fathers grave and then had a huge panic attack in the car park!
I couldn't go out side, like I said still don't go to my local town. Social services think the sun shines out of his arse! If only they knew what really goes on!
I was encouraged by my dr to prosecute but I felt that I had already been though enough, my health was more important. He's loaded anyway and would have just thrown money at The problem (me) and I didn't want his money I wanted an apology and the acknowledgement that he was in the wrong but he would never have done that so I quit and spent a year doing agency work untill I had the confidence to be in a job full time under a manager again.
After I left he sent a msg through a colleague saying my job was still there if I wanted it! (basically he realised how good I am and what a mistake he's made I guess) well tough. He said he thought I was on drugs and had mental problems and threatened me with a bad reference as well.
So I'm sorry if I offended any of u out there who r managers it really was not my intention. I'd never deliberately hurt anyone's feelings.
Xxx