As you've said, Trudy, it's not all about the scores on the doors, so to speak... stabilising your current weight and letting your body heal, inside and out, is far more important than what the scales say today, surely? I know you know this (as do I, so I'm talking to myself with tough love as I am you...), now it's all about getting a handle on your behaviour around food. If I lived closer to you, I'd come and remove those pesky scales, and force feed you that veg!
And as for having a fab haircut to lose a few more grammes, what a great idea! (pondering on that one myself!!). You look fabulous. It's a shame you can't seem to see it yourself.