Ah we all have the tendency to be rude and insensitive sometimes, its happend on this thread for example, but no one has suggested caging and poking with sticks is the answer
maybe you just got her on a bad day?
If she is the one I'm think of (correct me if I'm wrong JVS) she seemed to be a perfectly nice woman, who was kinda tiptoeing around a group of people who have a reputation (whether earned of not is anyones guess) to kick off at the slightest opportunity. It seems like they bring her a hell of a lot of business as well so I imagine she would try and be as nice and inoffensive as possible.
I noticed a similar thing with the beauty therapist who was doing the sray tans etc for the 1st communion. I imagine her p[ersonal thoughts were that it is a bit sad that such young girls are having those kind of treatments, but she's not paid to have an opinion - she paid to do the work and she doesn't want to offend.
Anyway, i actually came on to post the pic of my flowers but in a massive shock got side tracked
, so here they are.