:bighug: don't feel guilty lovely at the end of the day we were being honest weren't we, and yep hes made it all up to you (wish Matt would :giggle: ) but what we said was still true and made us both feel better to realise its teenage lads /well teenagers in general or a certain breed of them :8855: xxxxx
Comes in to give Tilly a huggles x
Tilly - I haven't got a diary! Can't think why anyone would want to read it. I haven't got much to say (except on everyone else's of course!) and I am rather shy actually! Also, I am just as fat as when I started - who wants to know about that?? Having said that, I have met lots of lovely people and it's nice to share stuff with other people. It's just that I share their's but not mine!
Po xxx
Morning Tilly
Awww what a lovely lovely Son, all kids are a pain in the butt at times and boy when they are don't you just want to strangle them (at the very least :giggle but when they do something so lovely as what your Son did, you know you've got a good one and it washes away all the bad times
So lovely to hear you being more positive hun, 1 day at a time....oh and sod the ironing, I fold my clothes, put them in the draw or hang them in the wardrobe and iron them as I need them, can't be asked to iron for hours on end, would sooner clean 100 rotten filthy loos any day of the week :giggle:
Hope you have a lovely Sunday sweetie and you had a fab catch up with your daughter
Take care lovely :hug99: xxxx
Hey sweetie, great rant and I mean that, getting it off your chest is good.
Ignore them if you can hun, you do what's right for you and ignore everyone, even me if you have to :cry:
I was the same as you and even now struggle with going out sometimes (although am 99% better) and had all the same things said to me, and to be honest I went sometimes when I really didn't want to, really wish I hadn't but can't turn back the clock, I just remember how Mal and the girls always got the brunt of it cos I felt i had to do what they wanted to keep the peace and then felt like carp after....I always also used to get told a lot by a certain person....oh why do you have to sound so miserable all the time (cos I am miserable and depressed a lot of the time :d'oh it just makes me think i don't want to hear it and then I don't want to phone, I used to think thanks for the support ...jeez
So hun doesn't matter how you feel or what you want to do, you do what's right for you and really discard what other well meaning souls want you to do, cos believe me doing it when you aren't ready to, will just push you back and all the little steps you've taken will all fall by the wayside.
Take care lovely and always know there are a whole lot of us that are only to willing to listen and give support, no matter what :bighug: xxxxxxxxx
Glad you got it off your chest Tilly
Unfortunately people are sometimes at a loss to know what to do or what to say and however well meaning there intentions are ...we end up with it getting on our wick....
No suggestions from me
Just a great big huggle and to say one day at a time lovely Tilly x
oh how i remember this, people still do it to me, if i am having a bad day and dont want to go out people keep saying oh dont slip back you have to keep going out
sometimes i just don't want to go out !!!!!!!!
do whats right for you tilly, thats what is important. you are doing fine xxxx
rants are sooooo good aren't they. i had loads but deleted most without posting just the writing it down helped. rant away honey xxxxx
I'm gonna go and do my nails in a minute. It won't take long cos I haven't got any