Grrr I just typed out a whole big reply and lost it!! Will have to try again.
Personally, I don't really care what BMI I am. Squeezy you're not being controversial, I agree with you completely! I don't really think that it's a system that carries any weight (ha pardon the pun!) at all and there are so many variables that aren't taken into account. Personally I'm just aiming for a weight where I feel happy and comfortable with myself. Whatever the BMI is, I don't care. The way I see it, even if I have a BMI of 27, my health is in a far better position at that than where I started! And if my doctor dared to ell me that I was overweight and needed to lose weight, I'd slap her into next Sunday!
I know what you mean about peoples views of a size 14 Tina. Obviously I've not seen pictures of you really but I doubt that you look like a hefter!! A 14 for tallies like us isn't actually that big, I'm aiming for a 12-14. One of my friends used to say anything bigger than a 12 on a girl was wrong and he wouldn't date anyone bigger than that. I pointed out to him that a 14 looks different on different people and for some, it's not big at all. His size 10-12 gf went up to a 14 at one point and I really thought he might dump her but he proved to me that he isn't quite as shallow as he comes across sometimes and stayed with her and they're now married, though she's back down to a 10-12 now I think. I don't really talk to him or have him on facebook anymore so I've not seen anything that recent. His wife is only about 5'6" so a 14 on her will look a lot different to a 14 on someone that's 5'10" but don't think many people realise it or see it that way!
Mmm spaghetti hoops, oh how I love thee! Probably more so than beans but there aren't any low cal ones that I've seen anywhere so I have to avoid them
Tina, if you do decide to make an offer, the fat that you're already there so he wouldn't have to faff about with serving notice etc and because you have now downward train makes you a pretty perfect buyer really. Think you should ask, no harm in it really! If he's been trying to sell it for 3 years but hasn't been able to he might consider any decent offer!
..........I can't go to bed........mr Lego washed up which can only mean one thing
..............an I sooooo don't have the energy tonight!!!!
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Hahaha get into bed before him and pretend to be asleep already!!
TELL HIM YOU DONT HAVE THE CALORIES LEFT!! As I think we've mentioned before the 'eventuality' has a whopping 7 calories!!
"Sorry Mr. Lego, I don't have the calories" ... think that'll go down well?
Haha 'go down well'... hahaha!! Though, the rest of the act and anything else has to burn more than 7 calories so it's no excuse!
Re: the 3lb gain Tina, you know it's uncalled for and so it'll be off as quickly as it came on I'm sure! My scales are all up and down the past few days for no real reason at all! I was under my cals yesterday and I've put on half a lb! Then last weekend I went out, had the weekend off but wasn't that bad and gained 6.5lbs!!! I've had a week of worse eating and gained less! Give it a couple of days and I reckon you'll be back down again.