Twinkle's Journey

Big squeezey hug for you Twinkle.

My cousin gets a helium ballon each year, writes her message on it with things she needs to say. She gives it a lipstick kiss print, allows herself to cry and smile, and sends it up to her little girl on her birthday :)

Nothing can take away the pain, but allowing yourself to mark the occasion, have a cry, can help even just a little but. My cousin says writing on the ballon in particular makes her feel like she is connecting a little, and getting her thoughts to her :)

I hope you will be ok, I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Another big squeezey hug for you xxx
 
Sorry today brings back such sad memories for you Twinkle. I can't begin to know what you are experiencing but we are all thinking about you xx
 
Oh Twinkle, big hugs sent to you hun xx
 
Sorry today is such a sad day for you Twinkle

Xxxxx
 
ED. said:
Big squeezey hug for you Twinkle.

My cousin gets a helium ballon each year, writes her message on it with things she needs to say. She gives it a lipstick kiss print, allows herself to cry and smile, and sends it up to her little girl on her birthday :)

Nothing can take away the pain, but allowing yourself to mark the occasion, have a cry, can help even just a little but. My cousin says writing on the ballon in particular makes her feel like she is connecting a little, and getting her thoughts to her :)

I hope you will be ok, I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Another big squeezey hug for you xxx
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That's a really lovely thing to do. We usually take balloons and teddies to the crematorium x

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Thank you for all your thoughts. Today id not going well and I have messed up diet wise too. I put all my plans in place and still found myself doing the wrong thing :-( I think I need to see how I feel tomorrow before working out what I want/need to do. My head's just all over the place today and to be honest, I don't want to think about anything that needs attention.

It has been a busy day and I'm now at work but hoping Dave will take over from me later, so I can have an early night x

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Don't you even begin to worry about the diet, today you just do exactly what you need to to get you through the day. I cannot even begin to know how it must feel and my heart really does go out to you, you'll all be in my prayers xx
 
x-Katie-x said:
Don't you even begin to worry about the diet, today you just do exactly what you need to to get you through the day. I cannot even begin to know how it must feel and my heart really does go out to you, you'll all be in my prayers xx
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Thanks hun. I've eaten alot worse tgan I've eaten today but I think this will end up being my food week after all and then start afresh in Sunday. You're right about having what I need to get through the day and that's what I've done xx

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Big hugs twinkle. Allow urself time to cry and think of him. Do what u need to do to get through. Take care hun :) x

Ht 5ft 1 Start wt 14st BMI 37. Wk1 -18lbs, BMI 33.6 Wk2 -2 BMI 33.2, Wk3 -3.5 BMI 32.5, Wk4 -5 BMI 31.6 no WI till 12 March
 
Take care of yourself Twinkle xx
 
Don't be harsh on yourself Twinkle. Just do what comes natural this week. xx
 
Have a great valentines day x
 
I was pretty much off plan yesterday. I am going to have a cheese omelette today and tomorrow and 'finish' food week as maybe I should have stayed with it in the first place. Sunday is the start of a new week for me. I will read the scales and the gain will hopefully push me back on track. So close to the 11's and yet so far! I need to focus, wedding dress, wedding day!

I still feel very low today and that's probably not been helped by falling off the wagon yesterday. I know it was emotional eating but this is definitely the most emotional time of the year for me, so hopefully that's the worst over with.

I will still pack the scales away on Sunday and I probably will take my measurements next week to help me get through.

Dave and I got alot done yesterday and there's only a few bits left to sort through. All the tv's from the children's rooms are off the walls, dining suite is gone and bed frames are all down (there's new beds and dining suite waiting at Dave's parent's house in the area we're moving to). The kids thought it was great that their mattresses were all on the floor and said it was like camping lol. The house is looking really bare now and I'm looking forward to getting my home back when we move.

Have a good day xx

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It's normal to feel low at the moment with all that you have going on, not just the anniversary but the move, the packing, the stress, the seeing your house empty - everything and you are coping with it amazingly well xx

Enjoy the excitement of it all along with your children, relish your camping fun and living out of boxes, it's also a fun and exciting time and you're making memories for the future :)
 
Keep at it Twinkle. You are doing so well mrs and have inspired many. You can do this. I'm off plan today but will be getting back on tomorrow so ill be here. You will feel better slowly hun, just try to stick to the plan. If you go off track that will make you feel worse.

Keep busy and enjoy the kids excitement. They must be bursting ;-) I remember we moved when I was 6. I left my old house to go to school in the morning and in the afternoon I went home to a different house. I wanted to stay home n help with the moving but needless to say I'd have been a hindrance! I was one of 5 kids. I was so excited that day! We were very happy in that house and I hope you will be too :)

Have a good day chick :) x

Ht 5ft 1 Start wt 14st BMI 37. Wk1 -18lbs, BMI 33.6 Wk2 -2 BMI 33.2, Wk3 -3.5 BMI 32.5, Wk4 -5 BMI 31.6 no WI till 12 March
 
Hi Twinkle, hope your day is going to plan. All fit & ready for TS tomorrow x
 
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