we talk about thoughts and feelings but the most useful meeting was thinking back to sayings from childhood that make you react in a certain way. Mine was certainly "you must eat everything on your plate" and now I still find it hard to leave anything even if I am stuffed. I was listening to a mum in a cafe last Saturday and she was saying to her child to eat everything up and if he did he would get some sweets-so it hasn't changed. Is it because we always want our money's worth?