¡¡ʎǝuɹnoɾ s,ǝpuolqǝǝzʇıp - same old, same old!

Wish there was something I could do to help :hug99: - I don't have kids so no idea what to suggest (I would open a bottle of wine myself but probably not a good idea when you have kids to look after) in fact most of my suggestions would probably be illegal!!!!!!!!
Bren xx
 
Hi hun,
Sometimes you dont have to be doing stuff with them, and like us, sometimes all they want to do is veg!!! Its not a reflection on you, they get tired and cranky and overwhelmed too. You are a brill mum, but its not all about them. Take the time that they are vegging in front of the tv, and get a book, do some mini's reading, and enjoy the peace and quiet.

Hugs. xxxxxxxx
 
oh honey x i know you wish you could stay on holiday forever xxx big hugs xxxx before you went away did they want to watch TV all the time?
 
Oh sorry your feeling like that hun...

Maybe the kids are just tired and happy to just have bit of chillaxing time now their back in the comfort of their own surroundings chuck..nowt to do with you so dont feel sad matey...heres a big squishy ((((hug)))) for ya xxx
 
Quak said:
Wish there was something I could do to help :hug99: - I don't have kids so no idea what to suggest (I would open a bottle of wine myself but probably not a good idea when you have kids to look after) in fact most of my suggestions would probably be illegal!!!!!!!!
Bren xx
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Bottle of wine sounds good & I'd like to hear some of those suggestions Bren, bet they'd put a smile on my face! :D

clarri said:
Hi hun,
Sometimes you dont have to be doing stuff with them, and like us, sometimes all they want to do is veg!!! Its not a reflection on you, they get tired and cranky and overwhelmed too. You are a brill mum, but its not all about them. Take the time that they are vegging in front of the tv, and get a book, do some mini's reading, and enjoy the peace and quiet.

Hugs. xxxxxxxx
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Thanks Clarri... I guess its easy to forget that they need veg time too & that they've been non-stop for 2 weeks too! Thank you. xxx

LVLLT said:
oh honey x i know you wish you could stay on holiday forever xxx big hugs xxxx before you went away did they want to watch TV all the time?
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No not all the time but they do love their tv, I just felt that after 2 weeks without it we could use it less but to be fair they need some chill out time too. xx

Fuzzy23 said:
Oh sorry your feeling like that hun...

Maybe the kids are just tired and happy to just have bit of chillaxing time now their back in the comfort of their own surroundings chuck..nowt to do with you so dont feel sad matey...heres a big squishy ((((hug)))) for ya xxx
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As always yr right Miss Fuzzy!! Thanks for my hug... can't beat a squishy one! ;)

Amalies just had a mammoth 3 hour sleep so I guess theres alot of catching up to do & instead of making the most of the time & doing somethings around the house I had a snooze on the sofa!! :eek:

I think probably the fact I only have 22 days til my op is affecting me too... have my pre-op tomorrow & the nerves are starting to kick in so maybe the emotions are too....

I suspect my thoughts of being out & having fun doing things with the kids instead of our 'normal' routines are down to my head thinking all sorts of things...

What if I don't make it thru the op?
What if I have massive complications?
What if I struggle to do anything for months the otherside?

I'm also beating myself up about not getting my eating under control but I know in 2 weeks I'll be on my pre-op diet & then it'll be all change forever!!

I've been so calm & settled about everything til now but guess at some point my head will start releasing all these feelings out that I didn't realise I was feeling!!

Now I'm rambling.... shut up woman!! :D
 
Linzi. Its thinking like that that will get you through this surgery. You are a fighter hun and you never give up easily. It will be ok. At the very worse you might struggle for a bit, but when you think of how much life it will give you back i think it will all be worth it.

Fuzzy hun thanks for your little message earlier. xxx
 
hello you!!

im feeling the pain of the holiday come down too babe, everything that could go bad has done since ive been back :(

but my kids are the same tbh, we did so much on our hols that all they want to do is veg, veg and play on the tramplied in between rain lol and veg again.....

22 days till the op!! woop, you have been waiting for this day for so long of COURSE your going to be shitting bricks xxx its all gonna be fab tho hun.....youll come through the other side the slinkier skinny you and without! the diabetes too...

youve come a long way hun..xx
 
Morning linz-i-loo..
Just barging in with a big bucket load of PMA!!have a gud un chuck xxx


P.S-Is tete a tete somat to do with potatoes..:8855: :D
 
Hey babes just seen your message. Good uck, you'll be fine. Your going to feel a rollercoster of emotion, it shows your erm...... well.........normal!!!! Lol
Missy is right you have come such a long way already. We'll be shopping for those skinny mini clothes soon enough (for you anyway!!).
Let us know how you get on babes.
xxxxxx
 
I hope the pre-op goes well Linz. You're bound to be nervous about what's going to happen ( I was pathetic before mine before Missy sorted me out, lol)

Like evryone's said, you know your doing this for the right reasons & it will all be worth it (((hugs))) xxx
 
Its true Cinta. If it was for cosmetic reasons only then it would be so different but this is going to change her life around, (drastic i know) but could mean longer being a fantastic mummy and one day a nanny! (dont kill me for saying that Linz).
I have learnt that Linz-i-loo is a very beautiful person both inside and out, befriend her and you have a true friend for life. She will be ok as she has to whip us all into shape!
This surgery has not been taken lightly and we all know that. We also understand you are doing what is best for you hun. Its a shame you cant have your computer on for when you come round after.........We'd help relieve the pain!
Love you hun.
xxx
 
Fantastic post and I couldnt agree more. I love Linz-i-loo too.
i hope all has gone well this morning xxxx
 
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