1.5lbs off for me this week, not sure I even deserve that much as Ive had two three course meals out this week and drunk wine! But I did try and really pull back on the other days, really happy with the 1 and a half pound this week as means I've now lost 2 stone.
Something I do naturally now, without really thinking about it and it may help others struggling, it kind of started from hearing friends say about the 5:2 diet, which is based on a weekly calorie intake rather then a daily calorie intake, ie you drastically reduce calories for 2 days, each normally for 5 days, then your weekly calorie intake is lowered so you lose weight by only dieting for two days. Each day my calories are different, I also read that this helps stop your weight loss from stopping or slowing because your calories change all the time. So I worked out the calories I needed to lose 2 lbs a week, divided that by 7 and then I have three days on that number of calories, then 2 days of higher calories and two days of low calories, it stops me from having a bad day and thinking that's it... i've blown this week, I just think that's 1 of my high calorie days used up, best be extra good tomorrow, it also stops me from getting the "sod it" mentality when I do eat something bad, before I would eat something I shouldn't and be like ahh todays ruined, might as well keep stuffing my face, but because I still count the calories and although I allow myself to go over, I still count it and have to cut back another day, its stopped me from being a idiot and stuffing loads of crap into my face just because I ate one thing I shouldn't, then that would turn into a "sod it" week because I'll restart next week.... I was always restarting next week
Dieting/healthy eating/life style change, whatever you want to call it, is about finding something that works for you, it isn't about sticking to something that you struggle with every single day, my personal trainer told me to not make a change in my life to lose weight that Im not willing to do every week for the foreseeable future... because I may lose the weight but it will just come straight back on, you have to make changes in your life that you are willing to keep up.
Sometimes Friday before weigh day are bloody horrible because Ive left myself with hardly any calories, but after a few weeks of eating nothing but salad on Fridays... and I don't bloody eat so much the rest of the week now lol because I punished myself by forcing myself to come in within my weekly calorie goal and I was hungry... I was grumpy... I wanted to eat crap and say sod it... maybe it isn't healthy but it taught me to stop being a pig and now I very rarely have weeks where I have pretty much used my calories up, because I decide what days are on calorie days, over calorie days and under calorie days, so I plan that around what Ive got on that week. My loses aren't huge, but they are consistent and yes I could happily live like this for the rest of my life, which is what I am going to have to do if I don't want to regain again.
Good luck everyone, hope this is a good week for you all