Hiya Debs, it is really hard:.i try to do all I can to distract myself by being busy, keep imagining myself slim/looking at old photos and remembering how good I felt when I was slim and also by finding something tight and then trying it on regularly to see how it's getting that little bit looser everyday. When I did Lighterlife we had weekly counselling classes which were really a form of cognitive behavioural therapy and they told us not to be negative with ourselves. So instead of saying things like, I'm useless, I can't stop eating, I'll always be fat and so on, you have to turn those negative feelings into something positive, for example, I've still lost half a stone, now I know where I'm going wrong I can start going right, I'll start again today and things will be better, I did really well at the start of the day by having two packs, I've had a blip but I can stop now and carry on. If you're negative and down on yourself you're setting yourself up to fail because you're not really believing in yourself from the start. Hope these might help a little, not trying to preach or anything but I found it really useful brung told these things and it made me realise how I look at myself.