Born obese , Tomorrow is my New Dawn

bubble77 said:
Hi von, No more silly talk being ashamed of yourself! You are our own special superstar, who has not long had a op and as far as im concerned is doing amazingly well with her exercise! You are doing fantastic Vonn please dont worry, you'll soon be in your uniform feeling very proud and on top of the world again. Missing your secret sister i know, but shes doing great too and you will both be bouncing off one another again very soon. Have a good day lovely. X:) Sent from my GT-I9100 using MiniMins.com mobile app
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Hi bubble,
I was feeling so low almost what's the blooming point,
But I gave myself yet another talking to , do I give in settle for where I am , how I look and feel , knowing that I will gain even more weight and pretty fast , or do I accept that fluctuations happen there are going to be days when I fall off plan , but I get back on it and move forward striving to where I want to be,
No one can do this for me , your all great boosting me up when I'm low , cheering with me when it's a loss, but your not the ones feeding me the good stuff or the bad stuff , it's down to me to make them choices ,
So I carry on do the best I can and focus forward,

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rubyeskimo said:
Hi Von, just take each day as it comes as each day is one step closer to target. Hope you're feeling ok today.
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Hi ruby,
Yes your right better to concentrate on the here and now, what's happened happened, I can't change it , but I can move on from it and if I've any sence learn from it,

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So here's today ,
I'm feeling loads better than yesterday , as I've posted in reply to bubble , I gave my self a talking to , I'm not happy where I am and I need to stop wasting my life ,
I've been dieting for as long as I can remember , all through high school I was doing some sort of diets , so that's taking me back to 1980, I remember starting secondary school and had to go to a specialist outfitters coz the regular shop that supplies uniforms didn't stock ones big enough for me ,
I eventually started at a SW. group in 2000, talked into it by my sister , and thank god she did,
So 30+years later I'm still letting weight win, I don't want to , yea I've lost 8st but I'm still in the obese category depending on what I settle to be my final target I've still got 3 or 4 stone to lose, I've been messing so long it's getting stupid , I want to finish what I started ,

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Thanks Mandy
Thanks Kathryn
Yes I'm feeling loads better today , I did hav a sneeky peek this morning and they were 3lb down , so definetly the bloat is moving ,

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mariavon said:
So here's today ,
I'm feeling loads better than yesterday , as I've posted in reply to bubble , I gave my self a talking to , I'm not happy where I am and I need to stop wasting my life ,
I've been dieting for as long as I can remember , all through high school I was doing some sort of diets , so that's taking me back to 1980, I remember starting secondary school and had to go to a specialist outfitters coz the regular shop that supplies uniforms didn't stock ones big enough for me ,
I eventually started at a SW. group in 2000, talked into it by my sister , and thank god she did,
So 30+years later I'm still letting weight win, I don't want to , yea I've lost 8st but I'm still in the obese category depending on what I settle to be my final target I've still got 3 or 4 stone to lose, I've been messing so long it's getting stupid , I want to finish what I started ,

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*big hugs* Aww Vonny I could have wrote half of that myself! I was the same at school and had to get my uniform from a specialist shop that did bigger sizes, so embarrassing!

As for letting weight win, you are winning my darling, you've lost over EIGHT STONE, you're a shadow of the former you and personally I find you a complete inspiration. You've got this hun, you know exactly what to do and in the grand scheme of how much you've lost you're 2/3rds of the way there, that must feel amazing. I understand how hard it is to do this day in day out over months and months, I've complained myself about how unfair it seems sometimes that this process takes so bloody long when you start over 20st. It really is something that requires complete commitment, there's no room to slack whatsoever, we've got to be constantly 'on it' if we want to get the results we want week in week out. It gets tiring sometimes, its relentless and hard and demoralising, but if we keep it up the rewards will be soooo worth it. Imagine how it'll feel to get to target, that feeling of all the hard work being worth it. Being able to walk into any shop and pick up gorgeous clothes, feeling physically the best we've ever felt.

You are gonna finish what you started I promise you, you have so much passion and motivation that I can't see you not doing this, it's yours for the taking. Hope you've had a great day on plan and are feeling a bit better about things today xxxxx
 
Cheese Thief said:
*big hugs* Aww Vonny I could have wrote half of that myself! I was the same at school and had to get my uniform from a specialist shop that did bigger sizes, so embarrassing! As for letting weight win, you are winning my darling, you've lost over EIGHT STONE, you're a shadow of the former you and personally I find you a complete inspiration. You've got this hun, you know exactly what to do and in the grand scheme of how much you've lost you're 2/3rds of the way there, that must feel amazing. I understand how hard it is to do this day in day out over months and months, I've complained myself about how unfair it seems sometimes that this process takes so bloody long when you start over 20st. It really is something that requires complete commitment, there's no room to slack whatsoever, we've got to be constantly 'on it' if we want to get the results we want week in week out. It gets tiring sometimes, its relentless and hard and demoralising, but if we keep it up the rewards will be soooo worth it. Imagine how it'll feel to get to target, that feeling of all the hard work being worth it. Being able to walk into any shop and pick up gorgeous clothes, feeling physically the best we've ever felt. You are gonna finish what you started I promise you, you have so much passion and motivation that I can't see you not doing this, it's yours for the taking. Hope you've had a great day on plan and are feeling a bit better about things today xxxxx
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Thanks Bev , for taking time out of your day to post such a lovely supportive post,
It's not easy and I never expected it to be , but again I didn't expect it to take so blooming long and be so draining some days, but your totally right we only get out of this journey what we are prepared to put into it,
Oh my gosh to say I'm at target will be amazing
( note I say will and not would )
I'm feeling loads more motivated today , almost back to my fighting self,
I'm not going to be beat by this , I may sometimes feel a bit overwhelmed and suffocated by it all but il keep taking them deep breaths and fight through it,
As always your right that we have to be on it constantly , a week off or even a few days off plan and I can feel the old bad habits coming bk,
I feel so alive and fresh when I'm on plan so why do I fight it , I guess that's the human in me lol I'm obviously not a diet robot,

Hugs Bev and thanks again for your wonderful kind support,

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I've been out and done a hour walk , had some fruit for lunch and I've just completed a mile walk with Leslie ,

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Texty_F said:
Evening Von - hows u today love x
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Hi Sheila ,
I'm loads better today , all I did yesterday was moan and main bout being bloated etc,
But a sneaky peek this morning showed 3lb off , but yesterday was my official wi which was a sts, why didn't I wait till today oh well that's how it goes ,

Had 2days fully on plan and feeling good ,

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mariavon said:
Hi Sheila ,
I'm loads better today , all I did yesterday was moan and main bout being bloated etc,
But a sneaky peek this morning showed 3lb off , but yesterday was my official wi which was a sts, why didn't I wait till today oh well that's how it goes ,

Had 2days fully on plan and feeling good ,

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Awww try not to stress hun - could you not manage to get to a group tomorrow? If not the scales will be down next week :D x
 
Texty_F said:
Awww try not to stress hun - could you not manage to get to a group tomorrow? If not the scales will be down next week :D x
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I'm doing it from home now , stopped going group prob a year ago , I know that wasn't the best of ideas As I've not really progressed but I didn't gel with the c, and the next group was hard to get to without transport,

I had a good day yesterday , and feeling positive today :)

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Glad to hear you're feeling more positive today Von! And if you're 3lb down already then imagine how much more you could lose the rest of the week!
 
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