Just cooked sw chicken pizza melts from mag for my boys and they are wolfing it down! A real hit, does look yummy. They love pizza but I don't like them eating a lot of it, not healthy etc so now I've found this, result!! Will do it again for all of us, love sw for all the family
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I would either have dinner early or find something to do. Clean a room, and set yourself a list of tasks, and you aren't "allowed" to eat until you've finished the list.
Clean your teeth and then paint your nails so you can't touch the food! Paint your toe nails, then you have to sit still!
It's really tough tho, esp when you have other crap going on. I really understand, as do most peeps probably! Is it a tricky relationship you're in? I know how easy it is to turn to food, try and stay strong. At least if you stick to plan, the lack of exercise won't be too bad. I understand the lack of motivation there!! We're here for you, rant away!
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I know it is difficult to get away from eating when you are emotionally tangled but it is almost a matter of practice to train yourself not to go to food when upset or angery. It will take time but take smal steps. Buy a lot of fruits and make a big pan of superfree soup. Then when you want to eat you can have a bowl of soup or a piece of fruit. Also try to turn the situation around and tell yourself that you are beaten by this stituation and stronger than your opponent (without malice) then you feel yourself calmer and not needing to reach for food.
As I said intially it is hard but it is like chipping at a big block - but you get through it eventually. Also when you feel in theat situation come on here and talk to us. We are all hear to support you to get thrugh and lose the weight.
Good luck.
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Subbing this thread as I am too going it alone at home.
Reason being I just can't afford the prices of going to group weekly, and I do well on my own done it before x
Thank youWelcome. You get a lot of support here.
No worries love, although if I can say something, and I hope you don't think i'm speaking completely out of turn, I never really talk about how I feel when it matters, I store everything up and it eats away inside, my fears/anger/a lot of repressed feelings of rubbishness from childhood etc etc, and I always used to turn to my friend the foods. The ones that niggle in your head when you feel down. And if you're like me which you might not be at all, and you never really talk it out you let it build up then I dunno if you can get past the turning to food thing, I honestly think I don't emotionally eat anymore, I've finally got past it, I did a vlcd which didn't let me emotionally eat, and when I did it I started communicating a hell of a lot more, the amount of times I've ranted on this forum when I've felt down and I can totally talk to my partner more now too. It really really helps to battle with food demons when you don't need them as a crutch for not talking things through.
I am so sorry if this sounds preachy or patronising, its soooo not meant that way, its just how I got over my issues with food, I eat when I'm hungry now, like proper hunger, and yes I go off plan and stuff but I still always know I'm not eating emotionally or not eating, after like 20 years of doing it I kinda think I'm done with it now, but talking it out def is the key. xx
One thing to bear in mind is that on this plan is that the more you eat the more you lose - obviously of the right food and until you are satisfied. There is no reason to fast becacuse if you do so your body goes to famine and uses stored energy and when you break your fast, it goes in a panic mode and wants to replace the lost energy and eat more - then you put on more weight.
Subbing this thread as I am too going it alone at home.
Reason being I just can't afford the prices of going to group weekly, and I do well on my own done it before x