Don't you just hate it when....

When you have to rn craft group tomorrow, normally I love it but working a sleep in tonight, have an horrendous headache and just want to be able to crawl back to bed tomorrow at 7am!
 
Dyjhiw boyfriend keeps farting in his sleep and you are being gassed in your own bed!
 
Dyjhiw you cats are going to the vets to get spayed today so you can't feed them this morning & they are looking at you like you've kicked them in the head or something :(

They have stopped meowing & resorted to reproachful stares from afar now. I don't which is worse.
 
*Emsie* said:
My hubbys disturbed people trying to break into neighbours at 3 different houses we've lived at! It was because he used to smoke outside I think. It is scary hun glad things didn't turn nasty!
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This is exactly what happened emsie.

Thanks everyone, they don't appear to have returned overnight?

Scarlett your post made me lol. Flipping men!! X
 
DYJHIW you woke up feeling pretty awake, but nearly 2 hours later when you are almost at work you feel shattered! Grrr! Xxx

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DYJHIW you get your payslip through and they have underpaid training hours, so I speak to the manager who lets them know the correct hours, then when the amended one gets emailed thru this morning, they've removed my training hours completed!!! WTF!!!
 
Welshtigger said:
It's not the GP who's told me-apparently all my problems have been brought on by me-and the only way I can fix things is by getting therapy, but I don't even know what kind, or if anyone can help me :(
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Well today I've been told that I'm a nasty manipulative spiteful person who could never be nice-and I'm so hurting by it all-oh and I'm a bullsh*tter and a liar!! Yey!! Could my week get any better eh!
 
Welshtigger said:
Well today I've been told that I'm a nasty manipulative spiteful person who could never be nice-and I'm so hurting by it all-oh and I'm a bullsh*tter and a liar!! Yey!! Could my week get any better eh!
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Whoever it is saying this to you I hope you've told them where to go! It's one thing gently telling someone that they've noticed changes in you and they think some therapy may be useful, its quite another being plain spiteful and nasty. Get rid of them!
 
ScarlettStar86 said:
Whoever it is saying this to you I hope you've told them where to go! It's one thing gently telling someone that they've noticed changes in you and they think some therapy may be useful, its quite another being plain spiteful and nasty. Get rid of them!
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I wish I could!!! But I can't :(
 
Welshtigger said:
Well today I've been told that I'm a nasty manipulative spiteful person who could never be nice-and I'm so hurting by it all-oh and I'm a bullsh*tter and a liar!! Yey!! Could my week get any better eh!
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Is it the same person that is saying these things to you?? If they cared about you they would be saying things in a more constructive manner rather than attacking you! Sounds like they have their own issues to me and if they think so badly of you then they need to decide what they are going to do about it not keep telling you to change!
Meanwhile I suggest you get rid of them! You do seem to feel that you do have issues you need support with and I think it would be good if you did contact the person you mentioned previously for some support x
 
*Emsie* said:
Is it the same person that is saying these things to you?? If they cared about you they would be saying things in a more constructive manner rather than attacking you! Sounds like they have their own issues to me and if they think so badly of you then they need to decide what they are going to do about it not keep telling you to change!
Meanwhile I suggest you get rid of them! You do seem to feel that you do have issues you need support with and I think it would be good if you did contact the person you mentioned previously for some support x
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Yep-they claim they care, but then keep being nasty-altho dont see that they are being nasty. When I question and ask why they treat me that way, i get told its because I'm all of the things I put in the previous post-and it's all my fault! I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place and can't seem to see a way out at the moment
 
Welshtigger said:
Yep-they claim they care, but then keep being nasty. When I question and ask why they treat me that way, i get told its because I'm all of the things I put in the previous post-and it's all my fault! I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place and can't seem to see a way out at the moment
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No one who truly cares could treat someone like that and to pretend otherwise is just manipulating you. It might seem hard to break ties and get away, I know its scary but you will be miles better off for it. It sounds like this person is making whatever problems 10x worse x
 
ScarlettStar86 said:
No one who truly cares could treat someone like that and to pretend otherwise is just manipulating you. It might seem hard to break ties and get away, I know its scary but you will be miles better off for it. It sounds like this person is making whatever problems 10x worse x
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I just wish I could break ties with everyone and get away but I'm terrified of being on my own :(
 
Welshtigger said:
I just wish I could break ties with everyone and get away but I'm terrified of being on my own :(
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I totally understand where you are coming from here. I was in an awful dead end relationship for over 4 years for that very same reason, I had been with him since I was 16 and didn't know any different. Eventually with help and support from friends and family, and reassurance that being on my own for a time is infinitely better than being trapped in an unhappy place I made the move and its the best thing I ever did.
It was a huge upheaval, moved jobs, houses and had to start again with the friends I lost contact with in those 4 years but it really was the best thing I ever did.
We are all here for you hun, and if you ever want to talk just pm me xx
 
*Emsie* said:
I'd rather be on my own than be with someone like that! Seriously! What are you terrified of?
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Terrified of being on my own, alone with no one to turn to :( I hardly have any friends-loads of acquaintances but no one I could get in touch with at silly o'clock in the morning if something went wrong or in an emergency :(
 
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