Everyone has a fat friend... I don't want to be yours! 2013...

[nettie]

evening everyone.. well I have found an outfit and I actually love it and feel really comfortable and quite confident.... and my outfit is a dress!!!

I have got a black dress, kinda chiffon type, which is shorter at the front than the back, with a short black cardigan (i refuse to let the wings go free), black tights and a thin gold belt with leopard print flat shoes which have gold around the heel, i am also borrowing my friends leopard print clutch bag. I'm not sure how to have my hair yet, I am hoping to get in the hairdressers as my hair needs a good chop, its currently near the bottom of my back! If i cant get an appointment i am unsure whether to have it down and straightened, in a low side pony and curled or in a bun... decisions decisions! I will post a pic tomorrow when I am all ready to go. I have text a pic to my 2 friends and they love the outfit (i trust them to tell me if they hated it or i looked daft).... ohhh and guess what... i bought some jeggings today and they are a size smaller than normal. they slide up no problem but they feel a little tight on the thigh, ste said they look fine but they dont feel fine lol xx

 

[Texty_F]

Way to go girl yahoo... your outfit sounds lovely hun. Pics are a must lol Its great that your friends can be honest with you, they are true friends. I think a "messy" bun would be nice

 

[nettie]

morning! Just been to the hairdressers and had my hair cut and layered. I have had 6 inches cut off.... i bet thats atleast 1lb off this week! lol
I will post pics this evening when I'm all ready, I can post a pic of my hair now if you want a nosey? I dont wear make up during the day so my face will look a little different.
Last night when I text a photo of me with my dress on to my friend she showed her mum and she said she can tell I've lost weight and the belt really brings in my waist... a compliment woo!!


I havent eaten yet today, phoned the hairdressers at 9 and they booked me in for half 9. I wasnt even dressed so I had to get ready in 15 minutes and walk there. I dont know what to eat, I'm struggling a little as I know I will be going totally off plan tonight but really want to be good during the day. I have a driving lesson at 1pm til 2pm, need to go to my dads and then pick my friend up at 6 to be dropped off at our other friends for 6:30, have a few drinks then get to the table booking for 7:30pm. Busy busy!
Whats everyone else up to today/ this evening? xx

 

[malamobile]

Sounds like you have it well under control - you are going to look great. Def put up pics so we can have a snout!! Busy day too so you can't dwell on any anxieties but why would you ? You are going to look and feel fab!!!!

At the opposite end of the glamour scale I am going to watch the hapless ITFC as I do every home match! See my parents who drive up from Surrey for every home match, do 30ds and watch a film!!! Feel my age at the moment as I do nothing fun- but I will step it up after 100 100% days!

 

[xMandyDx]

I'm sure you'll have a lovely time tonight. Don't worry about what other people are thinking of you; believe me when I say they're far too engrossed in their own insecurities to worry about yours. They'll be wondering what you think of them, too!
Your outfit sounds gorge, and I'd love to see a pic of your hair. I recently chopped all mine off - from bum length to chin!

As for what to eat, maybe try to stick to superfree today, and then that way you can relax a little bit more tonight.

 

[valerie11]

Hi Hun glad ur happy to go out now ( u sound like a completely different person to the other day more confidant ) ur dress sounds lovely hope u have a lovely evening xx

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[nettie]

Oh my word! What a fab night.... Hang over from hell but defo worth it. Went out at 6:30pm and got home at 3:30am. I had prawns in a tomato sauce with rice and salad and as far as drinks go.... 4 Malibu and diet coke, 3 desperados, 2 vodka lime and lemonade and at least 6 sambucas.... That's all I can remember and that was until about midnight... After that is a blur!
Got up this morning and my friend was asleep on my sofa??!! Ste has just taken her home and he's taking me out for another meal later, I can feel a gain coming on but it's only my birthday once a year! Xx

 

[Texty_F]

Awww nettie FANTASTIC - im so glad you had a great night hun, all that worry for nothing. Thats when you know you had a good night when you cant remember lol.

 

[malamobile]

Great! As I said its always ok and in fact this seems better than ok ... Just remember how great it was next time you get nervous. Pics??!!

 

[valerie11]

Glad u had a great night I didn't realise it was ur birthday happy belated one xx

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[nettie]

Evening all!
I totally forgot to take pics! When I charge my phone i will just add the one on here that i text to my friends and ill take a pic of my new hair tomorrow morning.
I have not stuck to plan at all today... I am actually ashamed to say what I have eaten today but I am expecting a gain this week after eating...

5 cadburys shortcake chocolate biscuits
a slice of chocolate fudge cake (my birthday cake)
a mini pepperami
a bowl of cookie crisp cereal
a milky way chocolate thing
double sausage and egg mc muffin meal..... please note that this was all before 1pm.... hangover eating is a must! I was sick 5 times during this period but I was starving!
I then went out for a birthday meal and had an 8oz sirloin steak, boiled potatoes and veg with a pint of diet coke.
My other drinks have been 3 cups of coffee, half a litre of diet lemonade, 2 cups of tea.

I dont feel guilty for having 2 days off and I am prepared to have a gain this week, back on it tomorrow, lots of super free SS foods for damage limitation... I have had a great weekend and 3 people asked me if I had lost weight who dont know that I am doing SW and my dad and my driving instructor said that they can see that I've lost weight.
I am looking forward to some healthy food for the rest of the week, my tummy is very sore from being sick but also very bloated.
I am very tired now, went to bed at 4am and got up at 9am. Could do with a day off work tomorrow just to sleep but lots to do, 2 meetings and lots of paperwork.

Everyone had a good day? xx

 

[nettie]

Glad u had a great night I didn't realise it was ur birthday happy belated one xx

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Thank you! xx

 

[Texty_F]

Nettie your allowed time off on your birthday sounds like you had a fab time hun. Its also great that you can admit to what you have eaten and accept a gain (thats if there is one) your only guessing Im sure it wont be as bad as you think, and your straight back on plan.

Cant wait to see the pic x

 

[nettie]

Awww nettie FANTASTIC - im so glad you had a great night hun, all that worry for nothing. Thats when you know you had a good night when you cant remember lol.

I keep remembering little snippets... not good! I also have a lovely bruise on my leg... I fell over in a club. what we cant remember is getting to that club! me and my friend were having such a laugh this morning about it all, she was worse than me and cant remember very much from the moment we had our meal. Just texting her now and she has been in bed all day, shes so ill she thinks she got alcoholic poisoning... too funny! lol x

 

[nettie]

The dress... It's a bad pic but its floaty material and it's longer at the back xx

 

[nettie]

I also wore some gold bangles but this was the pic of when I just tried the dress on xx

 

[Texty_F]

wit woo look at you girl. Love the dress x

 

[nettie]

would look so much better in a few sizes smaller but I was happy with it last night, I was the fattest and shortest of the group of girls i was with but some of them werent my friends and i really didnt care what they thought. My other friend who was there said that I was getting loads of male attention but I didnt notice at all... I am so happy with ste that I look at other men with my eyes closed! lol xx

 

[Texty_F]

That negative thinking has to go hun!!! your doing amazingly well, and at the end of the day who cares what anyone else thinks.

You are doing this for you and not to impress anyone, (even if you were catching mens eyes) lol. Ste loves you for you and I bet hes as proud as punch and so should you be.

So .... less talk of the " better in a smaller size" rubbish because that day will come, and when it does we all wanna see pics of you with a massive smile on your face. Until then just carry on doing what your doing and enjoy the journey thats taking you to the end result. Were all with you xx


Sorry lesson over mother has finished speaking lol

 

[nettie]

aww thanks texty and you can give me mother talks anytime, I dont have a mum (she died when I was 10) and im sure you're an amazing one... I'll just have a share of you!