Frances' New House, New Life, New Start Diary...

[Dubchick81]

Hmm it is hard once the trust barrier has gone,am sure it was just drunken silliness and I do understand why you checked as once doubt creeps in it is hard,I think you are in shock that he lied to you,I do not cope well when lied to so u know how you feel,just be careful that things don't get out of control,I.E you now feel guilty so tell him what you did then he doesn't trust you,trust is hard to get back once it's broken hun.

Ha.. I know I shouldn't have checked.. But I defo won't be telling him.. He doesn't doesn't know I know his password so it'll stay that way...

Can't believe the cheek of Jono. I know now you're probably feeling guilty about checking his phone records. The problem is that his lying had made you paranoid that something was going on or that he's hiding something from you. So if/when he contacts you later, try to keep your cool and just tell him that you don't appreciate being blatantly lied to and that things like that are what cause paranoia and insecurities in relationships... so you'd prefer if he'd just tell you the truth instead of _trying_ to make a fool of you.
If he doesn't admit and apologise, he'd be in serious trouble with me lol. Sending hugs hon xxx ((((hugs))))

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Thanks hun.. I know right?! It was a joke?? Who's fecking laughing? Certainly not me.. And not him when I get my hands on him!!!

P.s I can NOT stand lies. My ex lied to me constantly even about things that were no big deal and it completely ruined the trust and turned me into a paranoid weirdo... X

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Exactly... One thing I will not have in a relationship is lies.. (cheating is the other...)

Am not excusing him..meant he was just drunk and not doing the dirty on you when I put drunken silliness! He should've just fessed up instead of making things a hundred times worse!

No I know what you meant chic.. Just so annoyed. He knew that not answering his phone would make my blood boil, that's the most annoying part!

 

[bulldogdaisy]

Ha.. I know I shouldn't have checked.. But I defo won't be telling him.. He doesn't doesn't know I know his password so it'll stay that way...

Thanks hun.. I know right?! It was a joke?? Who's fecking laughing? Certainly not me.. And not him when I get my hands on him!!!

Exactly... One thing I will not have in a relationship is lies.. (cheating is the other...)

No I know what you meant chic.. Just so annoyed. He knew that not answering his phone would make my blood boil, that's the most annoying part!

Think that's the worse thing,it's all annoying and there's no justification for it!

 

[nessa123]

Oh no!! What's he bloody playing at!!
Men can be so ****ing stupid sometimes!
He was probably worried that you would get upset if you knew he was drunk so he tried to cover it up and has just made it all 100% worse!!!
Why can't they just be honest instead of telling lies makes me angry.
I don't blame you for checking his phone account if hubby treated me like that I wouldn't hesitate to log on.
Stand your ground and make sure you get the apology you deserve he needs to know that his behaviour is not acceptable and certainly in no way at all funny!!
Big hugs xxxx

 

[Dubchick81]

Oh no!! What's he bloody playing at!!
Men can be so ****ing stupid sometimes!
He was probably worried that you would get upset if you knew he was drunk so he tried to cover it up and has just made it all 100% worse!!!
Why can't they just be honest instead of telling lies makes me angry.
I don't blame you for checking his phone account if hubby treated me like that I wouldn't hesitate to log on.
Stand your ground and make sure you get the apology you deserve he needs to know that his behaviour is not acceptable and certainly in no way at all funny!!
Big hugs xxxx

Thanks Nessa. Certainly feel so much better knowing I'm not over reacting by being so annoyed over it.
Like, I don't understand why he'd lie that he was out. I've never had a problem with him going out. The only problem I have when he's out is him ringing me at silly o'clock and disturbing my sleep (I like my sleep )
As long as he's careful, and gets home OK, I don't care what he does or where he goes.. So it just doesn't make sense that he'd lie... And to make it worse, him acting like everything is rosey is p1ssing me off even more

 

[nessa123]

Thanks Nessa. Certainly feel so much better knowing I'm not over reacting by being so annoyed over it.
Like, I don't understand why he'd lie that he was out. I've never had a problem with him going out. The only problem I have when he's out is him ringing me at silly o'clock and disturbing my sleep (I like my sleep )
As long as he's careful, and gets home OK, I don't care what he does or where he goes.. So it just doesn't make sense that he'd lie... And to make it worse, him acting like everything is rosey is p1ssing me off even more

I hate that with men how they think if they act ok then it will all be forgotten er no!!! Youve made it very clear you are upset and if he can't man up and appologise then let him stew!!

 

[Dubchick81]

I hate that with men how they think if they act ok then it will all be forgotten er no!!! Youve made it very clear you are upset and if he can't man up and appologise then let him stew!!

Pisses me right off! He's been texting there.. I've told him I was so upset n angry I've left work (oops!)
He was like "ah will ya give over. its not like I done anything!"
I said well i don't know what you did or didn't do Jonathan because you wouldn't take my calls and then proceeded to lie to me!
Then.. I got "paranoid much!!" back in his text... OMG I am going to KILL HIM!!!
Seriously girls, i may hav to leave you for a bit.. Coz I feel I am goin to prison for a long long time...

 

[bulldogdaisy]

Pisses me right off! He's been texting there.. I've told him I was so upset n angry I've left work (oops!)
He was like "ah will ya give over. its not like I done anything!"
I said well i don't know what you did or didn't do Jonathan because you wouldn't take my calls and then proceeded to lie to me!
Then.. I got "paranoid much!!" back in his text... OMG I am going to KILL HIM!!!
Seriously girls, i may hav to leave you for a bit.. Coz I feel I am goin to prison for a long long time...

No you won't cos we are your alibi :0)

 

[emmaedes]

yer we are your alibi!!!! lol!! o god i hate it when they say things like that!!!! literally like red rag to a bull!!! xx

 

[BoS83]

Seriously can't they ever just admit that they f**led up and that they Understand that it came across as suss! Aaah!!!

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[bulldogdaisy]

Pisses me right off! He's been texting there.. I've told him I was so upset n angry I've left work (oops!)
He was like "ah will ya give over. its not like I done anything!"
I said well i don't know what you did or didn't do Jonathan because you wouldn't take my calls and then proceeded to lie to me!
Then.. I got "paranoid much!!" back in his text... OMG I am going to KILL HIM!!!
Seriously girls, i may hav to leave you for a bit.. Coz I feel I am goin to prison for a long long time...

He is just making it worse by all the silly comments he is making! He needs to use his noggin!

 

[sarah88]

He needs to stop being such a jack ass and apologise!

Hope ur ok Frances ignore him for a while, see if he gets the hint!

 

[Dubchick81]

He needs to stop being such a jack ass and apologise!

Hope ur ok Frances ignore him for a while, see if he gets the hint!

Am good thank you.. And yes, I wish he'd stop being such as jackass too!!
I don't want to speak to him. I need time to cool down so I'll speak to him when I am ready!!

 

[Dubchick81]

On another unrelated note.. I have rang an estate agents to make an offer on a house each day for the last 3 days, left numerous messages for a call back and STILL haven't heard back! Getting really pee'd off at this stage and forgetting all about the house! Wonder if the owners know how CRAP the estate agents are!!

 

[bulldogdaisy]

On another unrelated note.. I have rang an estate agents to make an offer on a house each day for the last 3 days, left numerous messages for a call back and STILL haven't heard back! Getting really pee'd off at this stage and forgetting all about the house! Wonder if the owners know how CRAP the estate agents are!!

That's not good at all! They won't get many houses sold that way!

 

[Dubchick81]

Confession....
I was SUPER bold at lunch time and had a McDonald's Could have been worse... but I had a cheese burger and med fries.. really wanted a big mac tho so in comparison not so bad.. but its OK as I'll work it into my dailies.. Prob not the best idea day before WI tho eh?

 

[Dubchick81]

That's not good at all! They won't get many houses sold that way!

I know its very frustrating.. I've rang twice a day each day and left my name and number each time.. And I've also left a message with it to say I want to make an offer on a property!!

 

[BoS83]

That's ***** bout house. Ud swear we wernt in a recession the way they deal with people making offers! My crowd were the same when I was offering! Idiots!

And don't worry bout McD's. Uve had a tough morning and u did improve ur choice by not goin for big mac. I'd say that's brilliant goin!

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[bulldogdaisy]

I know its very frustrating.. I've rang twice a day each day and left my name and number each time.. And I've also left a message with it to say I want to make an offer on a property!!

Can't believe they've not made a effort to contact you! What a useless bunch! The mac ds isn't too bad,you went for the best option so don't feel bad :0)

 

[bulldogdaisy]

I hope all goes well for wi tomorrow anyhow :0)

 

[Dubchick81]

Ha.. Me too.. Have been having good results all week so lets hope i've not blow it!! I've 7pp's for dinner so I think a veg pack chicken omplette will do the job.. And all the protein will keep me full while still being light