Frances' New House, New Life, New Start Diary...
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bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:Yup.. had none in so stopped at Tesco on my way to work..
Glad you've got some :0)
emmaedes
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just caught up on your diary!!! uh oh to Jonathon!!!! i hope you give it to him!!! he deserves it!! they are sooooooooooooooo oblivious half the time arent they!!! seriously! pretending he didnt call! he would have done better just admitting and saying sorry i called earlier i was drunk....done! but no they take the hard option dont they!! silly silly!
hope your ok!! xx
hope your ok!! xx
Dubchick81
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No it was during that time he said he'd been asleep.. Fuking fuming. Gona smack him right in the chops!
He just rang there and asked "what's wrong with ya?" Is he JOKING??!!!
Then I said what happened and I wanted an explanation.. And he said "yea. What?" Seriously, he's lucky he's not in Dublin!
He's tryna say now he was in bed and he knew who he was ringing but was "joking"!! I've told him to fuk off and not contact me again
bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:
Ergh I've had that with Jon in the past..it's a joke im supposed to laugh/I deffo never found whatever it was funny!! And the not knowing what's wrong when it's obvious and when you explain they still don't care! No wonder you are fuming!!!
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
I'm actually on the brink of crying (am at work) I'm so angry! Like, HOW is ringing someone who has to be up early for work and dog walking (which I missed coz I was so tired) at 2:45AM in the slightest bit funny???!!
And how is LYING funny??!!
Maybe its my lack of sense of humour, but I don't find any of it at all amusing! And he can eff right off now..
He ended the call by saying "Go on, I'll ring you later" as if everything was OK... So I replied by saying "Don't fuking bother!" Then text telling him EXACTLY what I thought of his "joke" Wouldn't usually text it, I'd usually tell him, but as I said I'm at work and its an open plan office.. I think I'd get sacked on the spot for the language!!
I'm absolutely fuming.. If there's one thing I cannot and will not tolerate its lies.. I will not be lied to!
Baby-belle
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Dubchick81 said:Ah am grand.. Annoyed.. Ready to f*cking murder him.. But grand
Not sure what way his day will go today... If he's to take apart the set, load the van, THEN drive home.. Or if they dont the taking apart and loading yesterday and are just coming home today.. I think the latter would make more sense otherwise they'd have been doing nothing yesterday... So either way he'll be tied up until later on.. So I'll have the whole day to work up the strength in my arm for the almighty punch he's gona get
Hope you're all good?
Ha ha! have give him a taste of his own medicine
bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:
Lies are the worse! And a obvious lie at that! Oh no at feeling like crying,frustrating for you! Least texting got it off your chest abit and better then getting told off at work.No it not amusing at all! I hope he wakes up and realises his mistake and makes a effort to put things right!
Baby-belle
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And your right it's really not funny.. Imagine if you did that to him he would have something to say
moonwatcher
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Men! Sometimes they have absolutely no idea do they? Not sure if they ever really grow up. Sending you hugs. xxx
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Vicky, If I try calling him on a work night after 10pm he has a stroke.. Never mind almost 3AM and lying about where I am!!!
Thanks Moonwatcher.. have calmed down a bit since texting him..
Like, honestly, when I seen Jono Calling at that time in the morning I was almost leaping out of bed to jump in the car for a very long drive.. So to get what I got.. While it was a relief to know he was OK, I wanted to kill him.. Then the lies that followed.. And hanging up on me?! He's a dead man walking.. Hope it was worth it, his "joke"
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Usually he just does his days work, goes home and has his dinner n shower.. Then will ring/text as if its all OK.. but he has text.. Still not apologising or admitting he was out! So I've told him to take a hike!
Like, what's the point in lying? I know he was out.. I don't fricken care that he was out.. Its him has to do physical work and a 5 hour drive with a hangover.. I don't care..
Just (A) Don't wake me! and (B) Don't lie to me.. SIMPLES!
Dubchick81
Finally Pregnant!!
Its makes me think all sorts TBH.. I'm a very insecure person. With Jonathan I never have been coz I know (knew) no matter what he'd never lie.. Being with him before, I knew that's just how it is (was). But now him lying, and me 110% knowing he's lying is making me think he's been up to something.. Up til that call this morning I'd have trusted him 200%... But now all that's going thru my mind is "why is he lying? Clearly there's something to lie about! What's he been up to?" And so on...
OK.. I've been a bit bold, and stepped the line.. But he doesn't need to know I have access.. I know I shouldn't but, I've logged into his mobile account to check to see if he called someone else after he'd rang me.. No matter what he said I wouldn't believed him so I needed to check.. Anyway, there has been no activity on his phone since that call to me at precisely 02:43... Apart from 2 text messages both to me.. That's not to say he didn't receive calls or texts but he hasn't replied to them anyway...
I know I shoudn't have.. But I had to check..
bulldogdaisy
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Dubchick81 said:
Hmm it is hard once the trust barrier has gone,am sure it was just drunken silliness and I do understand why you checked as once doubt creeps in it is hard,I think you are in shock that he lied to you,I do not cope well when lied to so u know how you feel,just be careful that things don't get out of control,I.E you now feel guilty so tell him what you did then he doesn't trust you,trust is hard to get back once it's broken hun.
azwethinkweiz
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Can't believe the cheek of Jono. I know now you're probably feeling guilty about checking his phone records. The problem is that his lying had made you paranoid that something was going on or that he's hiding something from you. So if/when he contacts you later, try to keep your cool and just tell him that you don't appreciate being blatantly lied to and that things like that are what cause paranoia and insecurities in relationships... so you'd prefer if he'd just tell you the truth instead of _trying_ to make a fool of you.
If he doesn't admit and apologise, he'd be in serious trouble with me lol. Sending hugs hon xxx ((((hugs))))
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If he doesn't admit and apologise, he'd be in serious trouble with me lol. Sending hugs hon xxx ((((hugs))))
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azwethinkweiz
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P.s I can NOT stand lies. My ex lied to me constantly even about things that were no big deal and it completely ruined the trust and turned me into a paranoid weirdo... X
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bulldogdaisy
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azwethinkweiz said:
Sorry to hear that Hun,worse one is when they expect you to get over it..just like that!
bulldogdaisy
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Am not excusing him..meant he was just drunk and not doing the dirty on you when I put drunken silliness! He should've just fessed up instead of making things a hundred times worse!
