Frances' PP Diary

Hopefully our gains are temporary eh hon? :) xx

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Ok... So iv text Jono n told him I think we should finish. Am so upset but as much as I do believe he loves me, I don't think he loves me as much as I love him. N he deserves to feel this kind of love.
I'm devastated n can't stop crying. Can't believe iv probably just thrown away the best thing to hav ever happened to me but I hav to think long term...
It's not down to anything he did r didn do. N bein honest it's probably me n my insecurities. Just hope iv done the right thing. It's so hard with him as he doesn ever say how he feels n is crap at expressing his feelings...
 
Hon? Are you ok? I didn't know you were thinking of finishing with Jono... I thought things were ok? Has he said anything at all? Wish I could give you a hug xx

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Hey, i didnt no you were thinking of splitting with yer fella? i thought you were really loved up ? sending all my love Frances .... are you sure your certain about all this? has it been coming on for a while ?
 
azwethinkweiz said:
Hon? Are you ok? I didn't know you were thinking of finishing with Jono... I thought things were ok? Has he said anything at all? Wish I could give you a hug xx

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I'll b grand hun ta.
Things have been grand as in no arguing or anything. But in fairness... There's been no time to argue. I never feckin see him! He's always workin n when he's not he's playin football r too tired to see me!! I just don't feel like his princess. I kno that sounds pathetic. But to me, I'm list when I don't see him. When I'm leavin him I already can't wait to see him again. N I just don't feel he feels that way. This weekend is his first off in 3 weeks. Do I think he's included me in it? No! He's watching football then tintin his car then he's nominated us to babysit!! Not exactly how I'd like to spend our first weekend together in weeks!!
Like, nothing has happened. Or nothing's been said. I just kno he doesn look at me n think "wow. She's mine"
 
*Claire-Bear* said:
Hey, i didnt no you were thinking of splitting with yer fella? i thought you were really loved up ? sending all my love Frances .... are you sure your certain about all this? has it been coming on for a while ?
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I think it's coz We'v been lookin at mortgage options etc n it got me thinkin "am I sure we'r the real deal" Pretty much the same things ya'd b thinkin just before ta got married I spose. I love everything about him. I really do adore him. But I want him to feel that aswell.
 
I see what you mean hon. I think I understand where you're coming from. He should want to see you and should feel the way you do about him. I read somewhere that men should feel lucky to have their woman and that women need to feel like their man needs/wants them. Its strangely true. I know you love him a lot but you need that kind of adoration returned, you don't want it to be one way. Take some time to yourself hon, I'm here if you need to talk it out or anything. Sending love and hugs xx

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I definitely need to b told. He's the worst EVER st showing/speaking of his feelings.
Like I kno if I asked him for something r needed help with anything there wouldn't b a problem n he'd be there. But I just don't think he lives me like i love him. And as much as I deserve to b loved as much in return, he deserves to feel these feelings n if that's not with me then so be it...
 
Matthew isnt really like that either ..... some men just arent ..... he was always away with the army and for the first 3 years of our relationship he was sooo shy and reserved with his feelings. i use to have to tell him off !! he didnt mention marriage til we'd been together 3 n half years yet some men mention it all as soon as they get with the girl ......... this prob isnt good advice but i say you tell him how u feel before ending it all ..... i knew i loved Matthew so much that i didnt care how he was .... hes changed a lil now but still wen he proposed i was so shocked!!! i did not expect it atall esp as we never even chatted about marriage or anything !!!!
 
Dubchick81 said:
I'll b grand hun ta.
Things have been grand as in no arguing or anything. But in fairness... There's been no time to argue. I never feckin see him! He's always workin n when he's not he's playin football r too tired to see me!! I just don't feel like his princess. I kno that sounds pathetic. But to me, I'm list when I don't see him. When I'm leavin him I already can't wait to see him again. N I just don't feel he feels that way. This weekend is his first off in 3 weeks. Do I think he's included me in it? No! He's watching football then tintin his car then he's nominated us to babysit!! Not exactly how I'd like to spend our first weekend together in weeks!!
Like, nothing has happened. Or nothing's been said. I just kno he doesn look at me n think "wow. She's mine"
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Wow I have been feeling like this about my bf all week I don't see him much lately as he's been working and I don't feel like we are as excited about seeing each other as we were I get so excited on the Friday and he says he does but then we see each other and I feel like I'm the loving one we have fun but end up bickering it's really been getting to me, I am trying to just work through it I've mentioned to him I'm fed up but I'm not sure he realises how much It's such a hard decision to finish it i hope your ok, I'm not making that step just yet but will admit I've thought about it a couple of times I'm feeling a little confused to :(.

Hugs and I hope he realises and you can work it out or just your ok
 
Frances hugs darling, sounds very drastic and quick. Could you speak to him first and tell him how you feel? I can tell you love him very much?

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Y xou might need to go see him to see what his opinion is and what his reaction is to the things you're thinking? Has he said anything?

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Thanks girls really appreciate the advice :)
See this isn't the first time iv felt like this n we spoke about it before. He's him. I don't wana change anything about him. Except that he tells me once in a whike how he feels. Even just a simple x on the of a text. Just something... I feel like he's with me coz it was an easy option.
He'd been away travelling in oz for a year then n Canada before that for a year. He was just home when we went for drinks. We'd never lost contact when we finished n remained friends so we just went for a catch up drink. Then we started seein each other again n then hot together.
In our chats before we went for drinks he'd said he was home to settle down. He'd gotten the travel out of his system n now he wanted to settle down. Buy a house n hav a family. So sometimes I think I was the easy option as there was no havin to get to kno me r my family so that was out. I feel like he settled rather than found someone he wanted to spend his life with...

Claire We'v spoke about marriage n all that but neither of us are into it. Tho I do wana b engaged. He doesn see the point in if we're not gona marry so it doesn't matter what I feel about it, that's just the way it'll be...
Just feels sometimes like it doesn't matter what I want, I'm just there for the craic... When he feels like it he'll see me n when he doesn he won't. We go where he wants when he wants. We watch what he wants when he wants.
 
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