From here to Eternally Slim

[Eternalflame]

Hello SC

Glad you enjoyed you cruise and it is hard to stay on track when you are surrounded by food. But thats life isn't it? We are good on plan with SW and have a celebration or hols, a gain and then loose it again after. You'll loose whatever you gained if anything, by next week anyway. Hol gain always comes off quicker.

Good luck with your WI tomorrow

 

[zombiecakes]

Hi folks. I'm just back from a week's cruise, so haven't really had the chance to read through all the posts since then (impossible!), but I have to say well done to EF, Libra and Tanny for superb losses this week (sorry if I missed anyone).

Don't worry about the STS Pesty - you did well on so much vodka!
Happy 40th Charmed, and well done on your mini-goal.
I hope you enjoy your Scottish trip MLM! Remember, it's not all Haggis for tea up here - you can get a deep fried Mars bar too (it's a HexB in our class ).

I tried very hard to stay on plan during the cruise, and food-wise, I was mainly excellent, but we met up with some people while on board, and you know how it is when you're spending every evening chatting, watching shows, eating dinner, playing bingo , going to the casino etc.
You have to have a drink (or ten).
Plus it was my birthday on Saturday, so we spent it in Sardinia and some lovely bottles of wine (can't remember how many exactly), so I'm afraid my syns were obliterated by the alcohol!

I'm cautiously expecting a 3 or 4lb gain at weigh-in tomorrow evening, but will get back on plan straight-away anyway.

Still if you enjoyed the cruise who cares?!

The weight you gained during your hols will be shifted quickly i'm sure!

 

[Eternalflame]

That might be an idea ZC, I might need to the same during school hols anyway.

 

[zombiecakes]

Hi Zombiecakes

A loss is a loss as they say its better than gaining.

You might next week at WI that the loss will be greater.

I'm just off to read your food diaries its nice read what someone else is eating...Good luck

Kats

Thank you

Yay at someone reading my food diary! :love:

 

[Eternalflame]

Oh dear.. I'm having a picky moment. There is a pack of biscuits in the breadbin, I have been picking up and going to eat this eve. Only thing stopped me was kids and OH walking in the kitchen and felt guilty. I do think by the end of the night, I will be at them.. Heck knows why im feeling like this, but thought id pop on and post and vent before I eat the pack. Bigger pickers and all that, but I don't want bigger knickers, lol.. so gonna try and resist the crumbly yummy biccies sitting in there calling my name.. Man.. ive got it bad.. Ass kick needed?

 

[libra77]

That image is a bit more of a tame butt kick, lol.

If you are really worried ask OH or the kids to hide them if you are in the mood for biscuits. Or can you allow yourself one in your syn allowance that might take the craving off? xxx

 

[Eternalflame]

What a mild kick Libra, thanks for that . I could have 1, but I know I won't stop at that, so will get my son to hide them I think. They aren't even my fav ones, lol.. x

 

[libra77]

Well done to all the Weds weighers.

RP - Sorry to hear of the tough decisions you have got to make. But as the others have said, if you are sure that there is no way back it is best to move on with your life. It sounds like you have tried to work at it and it hasn't panned out. Life is too short to be unhappy and I am sure that once the dust settles you will begin to feel better about things. We are all here for you hun if you need us. xxx

 

[libra77]

so will get my son to hide them I think

NO PEEKING!

 

[rosiepeace]

Thanks guys - I appreciate it - sorry about the verbal diarrohera (sp) earlier - not quite sure what was going through my head - I do know that I need to do it though - but as someone said I still care about him even though I don't love him and despite it all I don't want to hurt him and I know it's going to. Had phsyced myself up to doing it tonight but he was busy on the laptop so I couldn't do it then as he was having a strop.
And our son has only just gone to sleep and I don't want to do it with him about. Might leave it now till after WI tomorrow night.

EF I know all about the picking - have been picking at cheshire cheese today! Get your son to hide the biccies will help you out and you'll feel better in the morning.

 

[libra77]

sorry about the verbal diarrohera (sp) earlier

Nothing to be sorry about hun. Sometimes it helps to get it off your chest. How old is your Son? Do you have anyone that would look after him for the night while you talk to your OH?

It can be difficult to hurt the ones we care about. But if you have thought long and hard about how you feel and are sure that your feelings for him (love) are over, then maybe some time apart could do you both some good. Maybe you could see how things go with a temporary separation and see how you feel towards him then?
Depends how you feel hun, there are no rights or wrongs in all of this, but you deserve to be happy xxxxx

 

[Eternalflame]

Rosie hun.. thats what we are all here for, that fab support when its needed. Stay strong and you'll find the right time. x

 

[rosiepeace]

Thanks guys
Libra my parents and sister are all on holiday so there is no-one to take him while we discuss it. He will be 2 in a couple of weeks so he doesn't know much at the moment.

I have made up my mind - it has come up before and I've stayed thinking that things will get better but they aren't doing.
But I've recognised that I do not love him anymore, and that by staying together we will only end up hurting each other more and ultimately hurting our son as well.
My husband seems to think that everything is going well with us - even though people outside the relationship don't think it's a good relationship.
Anyway I've made the decision that I will do it tomorrow after WI - I will have to go and check mum and dad's and my sister's houses - that's my job while they are away, so then once I'm back in the house I will be in for the night and will have all night to discuss it with him - also I'm going to take the boy out tomorrow to tire him out so he goes straight to sleep tomorrow night (hopefully).

Thanks guys you have all been so helpful and supportive, I really do appreciate it all.

 

[Eternalflame]

Any time Rosie x

Im off to shower and bed, am shattered. Good night lovelies. xx

 

[libra77]

I will be thinking of you RP xxx

 

[libra77]

EF

 

[rosiepeace]

Thanks girlies - am going to watch the news and then head to bed - ready to be up early tomorrow with the boy
Need to go shopping tomorrow as well so I'll be busy for most of the day anyway.

 

[MadameLaMinx]

Good luck Rosie.

 

[Lenlu]

Hiya all - Im still alive!!

Just caught up on posts, taken me some time!!

Glad you had a good time with your sisters MLM
EF - Glad your arm is healing better and your loss this week
Pesty - I think a change of plan will be great, your body is obviously used to all the good food, it needs a kick up the bum!
Rosie - Can only echo what everyone else has said, and living your life, times will be tough but we will always be here if you need to rant. The most important thing in the whole situation is your son, and its best if he doesnt grow up the current situation, so long term will be for the best hugs and love to you x

Now me - hhmmm lol Been to Butlins for 4 days over the weekend, there is NOTHING healthy to eat there, all Burger king, pizza huts etc So yes I went well off plan, and didnt stop when I got back on Monday - was going to miss wi last night as I have had such a crap week but needed to draw a line under it as I know I would have kept eating crap - and got a STS at wi - so very happy with that!! Now 110% on plan for this week - at a wedding this weekend but going to make good choices (or try to!) and minimal syns in week anyway to save some syns for the wedding

Hope everyone is well love to all, and will try and be around more now

 

[Eternalflame]

Good morning

Lenlu.. well done on STS this week, with Butlins its hard to stay on track, mostly junk food, but everything is fried anyway. You must be so pleased.

Rosie, my thoughts are with you today, hope you can say what you have been needing to say and you work a way forward too.

Good luck to the Thursday Weighers, I need to bring the list forward, lol..

Have got some inspiration from Snuggle's, with her fishy week and gonna give that a go from next Tuesday for the week. I like mackerel, tuna, salmon, prawns and all shellfish, cod and sardines so think I can live with that for the week and make some meals with it all. Gonna start to plan my week's meals and do it that way, so I'm stocked up ready.

Didn't eat any of the biscuits last night, went to bed early to get away from the craving and this morning, spoke to my son and saw an empty biscuit back on his side in his room, he'd polished the lot off, which made me laugh, but i'm so glad they are now gone, lol.

Right, have a few appointments this morn, so will be popping in and out when I can.

Enjoy your day xxx