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Oh Heather! I'm so so sorry to hear about your mum :( it breaks my heart thinking about it. I'll say a prayer for her tonight. Hang in there honey, we're always here for you.
 
Awww Heather ... hunny your poor mum lets hope the anti/B's
and fungal treatment help some for her ...
Re: if your parents are wanting you all to go ahead with the break
for there peace of mind I think you should with the proviso if there
are any changes to your mums condition etc your notified straight away ....

( hugs as always ) x
 
I can't thank you guys enough for this support ! I spoke to her this evening - she feels very unwell and down in the dumps . My Brother has gone down for a couple of days which I'm really pleased about because she often thinks he doesn't care about her- he's a closed book and doesn't exhibit feelings easily and can be quite selfish and tight (even though he and my S-I-L has 4 children!) So it will mean a lot to her and my Dad too, probably more than me going down in a way because she already knows that I care loads! I think we'll just have to play it by ear re the end of the week! We don't know if her current condition is resolvable in the short term or whether its going to get worse and worse! 5 days can be a long time in a situation like this and a lot can change for the better or for the worse! XxX
 
Hi Hev, I know exactly where you are coming from, when my Nan had lung cancer my dad and aunt had booked a two week holiday to florida - after weeks of deliberation they went and spent two weeks miserable in USA

Its nice that your brother is spending time with your mum - that will def put a smile on her face

lots of love xxxxx
 
donnajt said:
Hi Hev, I know exactly where you are coming from, when my Nan had lung cancer my dad and aunt had booked a two week holiday to florida - after weeks of deliberation they went and spent two weeks miserable in USA

Its nice that your brother is spending time with your mum - that will def put a smile on her face

lots of love xxxxx
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Yeah its difficult to know what the right thing to do is! It feels so wrong to be living it up at Center Parcs which was only booked for my parents 40th anniv in the first place, by my parents so we could all be together! It couldn't be worse timing, but of course evil old cancer doesnt care about timing!!
 
funcurls said:
Yeah its difficult to know what the right thing to do is! It feels so wrong to be living it up at Center Parcs which was only booked for my parents 40th anniv in the first place, by my parents so we could all be together! It couldn't be worse timing, but of course evil old cancer doesnt care about timing!!
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Hev you won't for a minute be living it up...go for your mum and dad, you can always come home early....trying to think how to word this, if it was me, i wouldn't want to waste days away from my mum just in case - does that make sense to you?
 
donnajt said:
Hev you won't for a minute be living it up...go for your mum and dad, you can always come home early....trying to think how to word this, if it was me, i wouldn't want to waste days away from my mum just in case - does that make sense to you?
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Yes thanks Donna it does make perfect sense, which is why I feel we shouldnt go if they can't go! My parents said they'll be offended if we don't go, even if we go and see them instead!! They don't want the booking wasted and they want is to enjoy it! Anyway, a glimmer of good news...Because Mum is feeling a little better today, they're talking about the possibility of her getting home by the end of the week, which means that there's a chance we could all be going to Center Parcs altogether afterall! Even if they only come for half the weekend, and even if Mum has to rest for the whole time- as long as she's there it doesn't matter ! X
 
funcurls said:
Yes thanks Donna it does make perfect sense, which is why I feel we shouldnt go if they can't go! My parents said they'll be offended if we don't go, even if we go and see them instead!! They don't want the booking wasted and they want is to enjoy it! Anyway, a glimmer of good news...Because Mum is feeling a little better today, they're talking about the possibility of her getting home by the end of the week, which means that there's a chance we could all be going to Center Parcs altogether afterall! Even if they only come for half the weekend! X
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Hev I'd be the same I would have to be forced to go....lets hold on to that good news...think positive and everyone pray to keep Hev's Mum well enough to enjoy a short break at CP xxx
 
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Hey Hevvie...I'm holding onto that bit of positive vibe ad running off with it.....! Lots of love sweetie and I hope you can enjoy the little break planned all together. I'm pleased your brother is visiting her too- i am sure tht will Cheer your mum up! X
 
Fingers and toes crossed that your mume can get home and make it to CP - even if only for a couple of days.
It will probably do her the world of good to see both you and your brother together.
(((( BIgs Hugs )))) chica.
 
Hey Hev, so glad to hear that your mum is doing better. If you can all make it to centre parcs, it would be so wonderful. Stuff of memories! Sending you positive vibes, you're all in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Thanks Bev, Honey & Kals for the latest positive vibes! Unfortunately Mum & Dad won't be coming to CP- it's pretty certain now! She vomited again this morning and the abdo pain is no better! Today she had a long line inserted as they can't get venflons into her anymore as a result of all the chemo/IVs she's had- this in itself isn't a big deal in fact its surprising she hasn't required one before now! She also had an ultrasound this afternoon and having a CT scan tomorrow, so it's all a big waiting game! The latest thinking is that perhaps the infection has caused some fluid or pus to build up and that could be why she's feeling pain? I hope this is the case in a way as it sounds resolvable! Anyway if she remains stable the rest of us will still go ahead with CP! Can't wait to see my 3 nephews and niece as I havent seen them for a year, and this is a long time especially for 3 year old Tilly in terms of development! I've spoken to them on the phone lots and keep up to date with pics on Facebook but of course there's no comparison in actually spending time with them so I'm excited about that! X
 
Lets hope she stays stable and that you can get a few days away Hevs.
As Claire says you know she'd love you to be with your brother if you possibly can be.
More of these chica :hug99: :hug99: :hug99: :hug99: :hug99:
 
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