Obviously i need to add my twopennath (or however you spell it) here!!!
I have a 6 date rule, but TBH, only usually last about 3 or 4.
If you give it up too quickly, it all becomes rather too easy for the bloke. The longer you manage to hold out, the more nervous they get that you might not be all that into them, the nicer they treat you. Plus, it's nice to be chased. But please don't think I think i'm an expert by ANY MEANS!!! Anything I've learned has been learned the very very hard way, and is the result of a lot of mistakes and tears.
In my experience if you don't wait, even just a little bit, it has always got too intense, too quickly. And that's no good if you want something more long term.
Anyway, you know what they say about opinions....
I have a 6 date rule, but TBH, only usually last about 3 or 4.
If you give it up too quickly, it all becomes rather too easy for the bloke. The longer you manage to hold out, the more nervous they get that you might not be all that into them, the nicer they treat you. Plus, it's nice to be chased. But please don't think I think i'm an expert by ANY MEANS!!! Anything I've learned has been learned the very very hard way, and is the result of a lot of mistakes and tears.
In my experience if you don't wait, even just a little bit, it has always got too intense, too quickly. And that's no good if you want something more long term.
Anyway, you know what they say about opinions....
We had 5dates over 5days and then we had sex!! 
