Jemmas weight loss diary

Me and Mr M are/were best mates. But I'm wondering if we'll make a year of marriage, we've been together 15 years got married last September and things have gone tits up from then. We have a lot of family issues going on at the mo (in laws) and if it wasn't for that it'd be great! But we've got 2 kids and it's tough our only way out is to move far far away now :(

Sarah if you arent happy then it's really not right. Especially if he's hiding things from you.

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What's annoying about him is he won't row. He just ignores me. Or says "we'll talk tomorrow" and that makes me angrier lol! Grrrragh. Hopefully I'll calm down by tomorrow lol. Wish I could just find my perfect man and that be that haha! X

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MrsM... That's so sad. Things must've changed a lot since you got married then did they? Its terrible when family don't get along!! :( x

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Men eh don't no why we bother girls lol!! Suppose he's not that bad really I'm the same as u mrsm iv known him since I was 16 I was actually with his friend lol!! Xx
 
It must put alot more pressure on a relationship marriage as you kind of must feel like your have to live up to the conventions that marriage brings. I hope things sort out for your mrs m! Xx
 
I been with mine 3 years this December :) we lice together and I want him to propose so bad ha I feel like a bridezilla! Xx
 
Ah give it time hon, he'll propose eventually. My sister is mad for her fella to propose too. She's with him 4 years and lives with him in his house... she's 26 and he's 39 lol! Think he'll propose before the end of the year... Want to be skinny for being a bridesmaid ;) x

Wow 9 years! Where's the sparkler lol!? X

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Yeah my mate got engaged Xmas day and I was like aawh isn't that so nice, his friend proposed to his gf few months back and I'm again like aw how nice. he says he knows when he's going to so hopefully by Time he does il be skinny ha I don't want to be fat bride! X
 
I'd rather go away to like Cyprus or somewhere and get married on the beach and come back uk for a massive reception rather than spend thousands on one day! Xx
 
Ah honestly girls your better off not being married.
I'm think things will be ok, he works away a lot and I've got our kids 24/7 with no family or support and it's tough. When he's back he's so tired and me and the kids crave his attention and with the crap from his family it's just like Aaaaarrrrrrgggggghhhhhhhhh how much can I take? I live in Devon my family are brilliant but in London 250 miles away. It's just hard to remain positive.

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I'd prob get married in Vegas lol but other than that I'd wanna get married here always imagined that I would have a big church wedding xx
 
I never go to church and wonder whether I should get married in one at all lol?! Wouldn't wanna disrespect anyones religion or anything by having it there when I'm not religious at all. Dunno... Getting married would be nice but i'd hate a big do because I hate attention. I avoided a 21st party & I can avoid this lol. I'm notoriously shy :p x

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I am a catholic but don't go to church every Sunday or anything lol!! Aww u have to b centre of attention on ur wedding day, it's all about the bride...n the groom a little bit too lol xx
 
I hate attention, me and Mr m got married in a registry office just us 2, our kids and 2 friends then just the pair of us went off to a posh hotel then had a massive party with friends, family etc the night after. It was exactly what we wanted. I wouldve hated loads of people watching us get married and He wouldve passed out:)

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Oh I'm technically catholic too lol. Baptised, communion and confirmed but I can't practice it if I don't believe in it. I'm agnostic. So I dunno where I'd get married lol!?
Ah.. See that sounds like my worst nightmare lol... X

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Wow that got all deep there ladies!

Hugs Sarah! That sounds like how things were with me and my ex! If u aren't happy petal then maybe stopping things before they get too serious may be best! He shouldn't hide things at this stage! I had never split up with anyone and when I had to break up with my ex I was a mess! I cried loads! It's tough to voluntarily go bk to singledom! I hate being alone but I'm not happy enough.... Hope ur ok and just decide what's best for u!

MrsM - that sounds so tough! Are u still planning on moving? I hope it all gets better sweetness!

Jemma & Starkissed - hope u get a rock soon :)

I'm confirmed etc but don't go to church but do believe to some extent... I really want the big wedding - I'm a proper chick flick romance fairytale gal... But I'll settle for someone who I love who loves me back :) I really want kids... Proper broody hehe!

Hope all are well! Now... November? Xx
 
I had a civil ceremony, been married 8 years and together for 10, couldn't be happier, he is my soul mate! My lobster and just the best, he shaved my nonny when I was pregnant and checked out my farmers when I was in such pain, love him to bits, although he is a lazy toad sometimes I don't care xx
 
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