*JenJen's* Back on the wagon before I'm ofski to Australia!!!
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I will do this...
Grrr. I'm in need of a rant.
Sitting in the back garden fuming. OH is doing my head in. I know he is in pain and frustrated and bored and feeling down and helpless. But taking it out on me over trivial things like me asking to watch some TV when he has watched his favourite programmes and played the PS3 all day is not on. He has gone to bed in the huff and just now it's doing my head in.
Rant over sorry people.
Sitting in the back garden fuming. OH is doing my head in. I know he is in pain and frustrated and bored and feeling down and helpless. But taking it out on me over trivial things like me asking to watch some TV when he has watched his favourite programmes and played the PS3 all day is not on. He has gone to bed in the huff and just now it's doing my head in.
Rant over sorry people.
Little-Miss-Perfect
Doing it exante style :)
*jenjen* said:
Fekin men!!!! They're so selfish sometimes. Deep breaths and some water
Hugs xx
Ps, your "in the huff" comment made me chuckle. Huvnae heard that fir ages lol xx
*jenjen*
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Miss-G said:Fekin men!!!! They're so selfish sometimes. Deep breaths and some water
Hugs xx
Ps, your "in the huff" comment made me chuckle. Huvnae heard that fir ages lol xx
Lol apparently I've to keep the noise down. Errrr be wheesht man! Lol
I'm no in the mood lol.
X
*jenjen*
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cybill said:Sorry to hear OH is driving you up the wall tonight.
Congratulations on your 5lbs this week, that's brilliant and into the 16's that's a fantastic achievement.
Time for a party
Thanks Rachel. I'm fairly chuffed.
Hopefully he wakes in a better mood.
And to top it off there's nothing on the tv lol xx
missfortissimo
addicted to minimins
I'd be quite frustrated too! atback: I can somewhat empathize with my father-in-law needing all this looking after, but he doesn't hog the TV, he just listens to the radio and looks at the paper... Sorry about your frustrations, that's no fun at all. But the fact that you are taking on these responsibilities AND losing an incredible amount of weight is just that -- incredible! Rant to us all you want! :hug99:
atback: I can somewhat empathize with my father-in-law needing all this looking after, but he doesn't hog the TV, he just listens to the radio and looks at the paper... Sorry about your frustrations, that's no fun at all. But the fact that you are taking on these responsibilities AND losing an incredible amount of weight is just that -- incredible! Rant to us all you want! :hug99:
*jenjen*
I will do this...
missfortissimo said:I'd be quite frustrated too!
I get that he's frustrated. I really do feel bad for him, he isn't able to get out and about, he's stuck in the house day after day and he's in pain and all of these things are hard for him. Its just this is my day off, I would like to watch something on the tv and its not unreasonable. He then goes off to bed and the most frustrating part of it all is that he will deny being in a bad mood tomorrow and make out that he just wanted to go bed. He does it all the time - it's how he acts when he is in a mood.
I wish he would give me a break. Although I can get out and about I'm restricted in what I can do as I'm looking after him. Although I'm not in pain like he is, I'm equally frustrated in the sense that we cant be a normal couple and do normal couple things, I don't have support from him in running the house or shopping or anything like that. I'm looking after him, I'm working and doing all the house work.
And with all this I just get on with it and don't bother him with worries or whatever so that he can concentrate on getting better.
Ah well... Tomorrow hopefully he awakes in a better mood. Lol
Xxx
missfortissimo
addicted to minimins
You really have taken on a lot and you have every right to be as frustrated as you are. You have your needs that need to be met just like he does, and you should get a chance to relax and unwind!
My situation's a little different, but like you, my OH and I can't really do a lot of normal couple things together, given that some responsible adult has to be with his dad at all times (hard to find a babysitter for a man in his 70's).
I'm very sorry OH is grumpy. I would hope he would show a little more gratitude for the things you do for him despite his discomfort. :fingerscrossed: for a higher-spirited, more gracious OH for Jen tomorrow! :heartpump:
My situation's a little different, but like you, my OH and I can't really do a lot of normal couple things together, given that some responsible adult has to be with his dad at all times (hard to find a babysitter for a man in his 70's).
I'm very sorry OH is grumpy.
I would hope he would show a little more gratitude for the things you do for him despite his discomfort. :fingerscrossed: for a higher-spirited, more gracious OH for Jen tomorrow! :heartpump:
*jenjen*
I will do this...
missfortissimo said:You really have taken on a lot and you have every right to be as frustrated as you are. You have your needs that need to be met just like he does, and you should get a chance to relax and unwind!
My situation's a little different, but like you, my OH and I can't really do a lot of normal couple things together, given that some responsible adult has to be with his dad at all times (hard to find a babysitter for a man in his 70's).
I'm very sorry OH is grumpy.
Thanks for the understanding. Its nice to vent sometimes. Tomorrow he will be better hopefully and I will feel bad for moaning lol.
You've pointed out something that I should be thankful for though. I can get someone to look after him for a while if I'm feeling overwhelmed. Something that is difficult for yourself to do.
Thanks again missfortissimo xxxx
notsoskinnymarge
Marge
*jenjen* said:Cheers marge... Still not managed pilates yet though
Haha
Do you want me to get out the big flip flop ?
I hope all is well tomorrow x
missfortissimo
addicted to minimins
No problem, my heart really went out to you when I was reading your posts. :hug99:
*jenjen*
I will do this...
Haha
Do you want me to get out the big flip flop ?
I hope all is well tomorrow x
Please.... MAKE me... MAKE ME DO PILATES TODAY lol xxx
