Darcys Mummy
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MORNING!!
Sorry I've been AWOL I think I was here on Saturday but not 100% but I haven't been ignoring you lovely people just had a really hectic weekend. So I am still on plan and still keeping up with my body magic so alls well on that front.
In life: Not too bad...went to work on Saturday as usual then came home and went shopping with my Mum and the doodles to get her a new coat for her starting school *14 days and counting*. So she has everything for school now until she does a Darcy and stains her clothes or tears her clothes lol but she'll look good on her first day lol.
After I got back from shopping we went over to my martyr in laws oops I mean brother in laws lol as my hubby said he'd take his fish...now you won't know this about me but I am petrified of fish...weird one I know but they scare me and I have full blown panick attacks if I look at them or am surrounded by them i.e. a pet shop...so this just shows how much I love my hubby because they're in our living room I made him put them to the back of the room so I don't have to see them but they're there lol.
Meet Larry, Curly and Moe.
We then spent the rest of the day decorating our bedroom...its getting there we're about halfway but it's a big room so can't complain. Then X-Factor came on and I left my hubby to it and laid on the bed watching him lol...
Then on Sunday OMG did I have the morning from hell lol. My hubby usually wakes up at 4:30am even at a weekend and he wakes me up with a cuppa when its time for me to get up. On Sunday I woke up and he was beside me in bed so I thought oh it must be early still LUCKILY I looked at my phone and saw it was 7:30am (I have to be at work by 8am) so I rushed around like a headless chicken set off for work 9 miles away half way there my dashboard lit up I pulled over rang him up and told him he said without looking at car I can't tell you what's wrong so I drove back home he gave the car the all clear and I set off again got to work collecting all my stuff out the car and 'oh oh' rang my hubby again lol...I'd gone tot he loo while he was checking the car and put my work keys down and yes they were at home on the windowsill in the bathroom. So I got back in the car and drove all the way back home to get my keys to go all the way back to work I was 45 minutes late for work...oops.
After finishing work myself, the hubby, the doodles and the parents went to Chatsworth Country Fair. It was a nice day out was not worth the £22.50 admission per adult...Darcy loved it because they had a fair there and she was in her element with my Mum and Dad spoiling her rotten. I got sunburnt
Darcy and hubby on the Helter Skelter lol
Then yesterday I woke up and sorted out all my SW stuff as it had been abandoned for 2 days lol and I caught up with my TV.
Watched duplic8 win got to dance woohoo!! So happy for Tobias...and Jak of course.
Then his family had arranged to meet up at his dads yesterday afternoon at 2:30pm to discuss funeral arrangements...hubby finished work early...came home...only to find out that his sister couldn't make it at 2:30 and they'd rearranged it for 6pm and no one had let him know...frustrated is not the word lol.
Anyway went up there at 6pm his family are very...OTT when it comes to funerals...I understand its a celebration of life and so on and so on but it isn't a Broadway production...it should be done with dignity my mother in law was a quiet, collected and shy person so she wouldn't want the bells and whistles they're insisting upon and what's annoying is the ones making these suggestions and ultimately the decisions are the ones with money and us who don't have money are still expected to pay our contribution towards their elaborate ideas. My sister in law had been pricing up the oasis for the flowers JUST the oasis and it was £140...no flowers just oasis. That's without the rest of the funeral...so I was kind of sat there trying to talk them down from a spectacle she wouldn't want to a dignified funeral and when we all left at 8pm they were still hanging on to the bells and whistles...so me and my family won't be eating for a few months...the rest of the year...possibly next year too...suppose it will be good for my dieting though lol.
I have to laugh or I will scream. They're making such a song and dance about it and they're a family who don't discuss this stuff so had my mother in law said when I'm gone keep it simple they'd of gone by her wishes but because she hasn't said it they're going to extremes to make sure they cover all their bases. I'm organised I have mine planned and it's all at the solicitors with full instructions for whoever is left to deal with it. I want the cheapest funeral you can buy, I want no religion, no hymms, straight to crem for all I care...I want Bon Jovi - Live While I'm Alive I'll Sleep When I'm Dead played when I go in, Sound of Music So long, farewell, auf wiedersehen, goodbye played as they all leave...then blow the rest of the money on a huge party and celebrate my life and the fact they're all still alive...and I want my funeral and passing to be just like my Nans...she slipped away as we were sat there laughing and reminiscing about her and the things she said and did...I don't want it to be morbid...yes death is sad...not having that person with you anymore is sad...but at the end of the day we all die and life goes on...why can't you show the person how much they mean to you while they're alive instead of waiting till they're dead to put on this huge over the top funeral...why didn't you buy her flowers just because you were thinking of her and not for mothers day or her birthday? Why didn't you buy her that thing she wanted and wouldn't buy for herself? What use is an ott funeral to anybody? It's not going to help with the mourning process a £100 or £10,000 your emotions are going to be the same you can't put a number on it to take that pain away. Ok rant over or I will go on all day about it.
Then this morning I was woken up at 5am by my little madam and by 5:20 she was back in bed and didn't wake up till gone 9 lol. So I have been working out, having breakfast, watching TV, tidying up, catching up on IG and Minis and after this I am going to do the second part of my workout. Davina DVD.
Back to SW I had a None Scale Victory yesterday. We went to buy more salad stuff as my mum stole mine *go figure* and while I was at the supermarket I decided I wanted some workout clothes the shop only went up to a size 18 and I thought go on give it a go they're stretchy *they're not stretchy trust me* but I did fit in them. Not going to lie the bottoms are very snug and I get a 10 minute workout just putting them on lol but I can get all of me in them lol. So from on snug 26 to a snug 18...Not doing too bad.
I have probably mentioned this but just to cover myself and it is in my signature but I do have an IG account I find I tend to use it a bit more for pictures (obviously) but I'm more 'vocal' on here but you can see my meals on there I guess is what I'm getting at.
Anyway I will be back later. Have a great day people!!!
MORNING!!
Sorry I've been AWOL I think I was here on Saturday but not 100% but I haven't been ignoring you lovely people just had a really hectic weekend. So I am still on plan and still keeping up with my body magic so alls well on that front.
In life: Not too bad...went to work on Saturday as usual then came home and went shopping with my Mum and the doodles to get her a new coat for her starting school *14 days and counting*. So she has everything for school now until she does a Darcy and stains her clothes or tears her clothes lol but she'll look good on her first day lol.
After I got back from shopping we went over to my martyr in laws oops I mean brother in laws lol as my hubby said he'd take his fish...now you won't know this about me but I am petrified of fish...weird one I know but they scare me and I have full blown panick attacks if I look at them or am surrounded by them i.e. a pet shop...so this just shows how much I love my hubby because they're in our living room I made him put them to the back of the room so I don't have to see them but they're there lol.
Meet Larry, Curly and Moe.
We then spent the rest of the day decorating our bedroom...its getting there we're about halfway but it's a big room so can't complain. Then X-Factor came on and I left my hubby to it and laid on the bed watching him lol...
Then on Sunday OMG did I have the morning from hell lol. My hubby usually wakes up at 4:30am even at a weekend and he wakes me up with a cuppa when its time for me to get up. On Sunday I woke up and he was beside me in bed so I thought oh it must be early still LUCKILY I looked at my phone and saw it was 7:30am (I have to be at work by 8am) so I rushed around like a headless chicken set off for work 9 miles away half way there my dashboard lit up I pulled over rang him up and told him he said without looking at car I can't tell you what's wrong so I drove back home he gave the car the all clear and I set off again got to work collecting all my stuff out the car and 'oh oh' rang my hubby again lol...I'd gone tot he loo while he was checking the car and put my work keys down and yes they were at home on the windowsill in the bathroom. So I got back in the car and drove all the way back home to get my keys to go all the way back to work I was 45 minutes late for work...oops.
After finishing work myself, the hubby, the doodles and the parents went to Chatsworth Country Fair. It was a nice day out was not worth the £22.50 admission per adult...Darcy loved it because they had a fair there and she was in her element with my Mum and Dad spoiling her rotten. I got sunburnt
Darcy and hubby on the Helter Skelter lolThen yesterday I woke up and sorted out all my SW stuff as it had been abandoned for 2 days lol and I caught up with my TV.
Watched duplic8 win got to dance woohoo!! So happy for Tobias...and Jak of course.Then his family had arranged to meet up at his dads yesterday afternoon at 2:30pm to discuss funeral arrangements...hubby finished work early...came home...only to find out that his sister couldn't make it at 2:30 and they'd rearranged it for 6pm and no one had let him know...frustrated is not the word lol.
Anyway went up there at 6pm his family are very...OTT when it comes to funerals...I understand its a celebration of life and so on and so on but it isn't a Broadway production...it should be done with dignity my mother in law was a quiet, collected and shy person so she wouldn't want the bells and whistles they're insisting upon and what's annoying is the ones making these suggestions and ultimately the decisions are the ones with money and us who don't have money are still expected to pay our contribution towards their elaborate ideas. My sister in law had been pricing up the oasis for the flowers JUST the oasis and it was £140...no flowers just oasis. That's without the rest of the funeral...so I was kind of sat there trying to talk them down from a spectacle she wouldn't want to a dignified funeral and when we all left at 8pm they were still hanging on to the bells and whistles...so me and my family won't be eating for a few months...the rest of the year...possibly next year too...suppose it will be good for my dieting though lol.
I have to laugh or I will scream. They're making such a song and dance about it and they're a family who don't discuss this stuff so had my mother in law said when I'm gone keep it simple they'd of gone by her wishes but because she hasn't said it they're going to extremes to make sure they cover all their bases. I'm organised I have mine planned and it's all at the solicitors with full instructions for whoever is left to deal with it. I want the cheapest funeral you can buy, I want no religion, no hymms, straight to crem for all I care...I want Bon Jovi - Live While I'm Alive I'll Sleep When I'm Dead played when I go in, Sound of Music So long, farewell, auf wiedersehen, goodbye played as they all leave...then blow the rest of the money on a huge party and celebrate my life and the fact they're all still alive...and I want my funeral and passing to be just like my Nans...she slipped away as we were sat there laughing and reminiscing about her and the things she said and did...I don't want it to be morbid...yes death is sad...not having that person with you anymore is sad...but at the end of the day we all die and life goes on...why can't you show the person how much they mean to you while they're alive instead of waiting till they're dead to put on this huge over the top funeral...why didn't you buy her flowers just because you were thinking of her and not for mothers day or her birthday? Why didn't you buy her that thing she wanted and wouldn't buy for herself? What use is an ott funeral to anybody? It's not going to help with the mourning process a £100 or £10,000 your emotions are going to be the same you can't put a number on it to take that pain away. Ok rant over or I will go on all day about it.
Then this morning I was woken up at 5am by my little madam and by 5:20 she was back in bed and didn't wake up till gone 9 lol. So I have been working out, having breakfast, watching TV, tidying up, catching up on IG and Minis and after this I am going to do the second part of my workout. Davina DVD.
Back to SW I had a None Scale Victory yesterday. We went to buy more salad stuff as my mum stole mine *go figure* and while I was at the supermarket I decided I wanted some workout clothes the shop only went up to a size 18 and I thought go on give it a go they're stretchy *they're not stretchy trust me* but I did fit in them. Not going to lie the bottoms are very snug and I get a 10 minute workout just putting them on lol but I can get all of me in them lol. So from on snug 26 to a snug 18...Not doing too bad.
I have probably mentioned this but just to cover myself and it is in my signature but I do have an IG account I find I tend to use it a bit more for pictures (obviously) but I'm more 'vocal' on here but you can see my meals on there I guess is what I'm getting at.
Anyway I will be back later. Have a great day people!!!
