heya spanx xx I had this hypnotherapist who told me to not see the fat as part of me... to see it as a seperate entity. this is because we identify closely and fondly with parts of ourselves and we shouldnt treat fat as part of our being... it'll be harder to mentally part with, thus making it harder to physically part with. so I try to see it as the opposition... something on me but seperate lol. I talk to it as a seperate being and its helping. she also said to not refer to it as 'losing weight' as we are programmed to miss things we lose (keys, people, money...etc) so think of it as 'getting rid of...' PLUS... to not call it weight as it is vague and could refer to any part of us that weighs (such as your head and liver etc lol). call it excess fat or just fat. gosh i know i sound like a loony but it is doing the trick and thats all that counts lol. So, seeing it as seperate, I can choose to be more stubborn that the fat...and can choose to 'get rid of it' and seperate myself from it. I'll be the slimmest one in the funny farm when the men in white coats finally catch up with me
You have not said if Kirsten can go london with your dad......hope she can go it will be nice for her to do something without her brothers.....thats the only prob when you have siblings......
good luck with success express week hun.hope your son feels better soon, ahh bless him.great news on the pj's,isnt it just great when this happens it spurs us on yippee.have a great day.xx
thanks for sharing that Karen i think sucess express sounds really doable and although it might take a wee bit more time preparing for me i think that would also be good as it will mean i need to look out my book again to update myself on all the superfree foods i can eat.......might just give it a go
great news on the pj's its just what you need to give yourself that extra boost, i had the same with a pair of jeans this week im not down i size or anything but their were too tight to wear comfortably before but now they fit nicely
fingers crossed you get a massive loss this week
Hi Karen, that's really interesting. Not sure how it fits with the Paul McKenna line of 'you have to love and value all of yourself first to be able to move forward' - but I think I can relate to what your hypnotherapist said more easily!!!
Good luck with your success express week! x
OH MY BLOODY GAWD! Im in the next size down... tried on the bottoms and they did up!!! yay!!!