Good morning ladies
sorry I have been missing in action I have been at my moms. I am going home today it has gone so quickly. My mom really noticed a difference in me which was great
next time I see her will be easter.
I haven't been able to weigh in yet so I will have to do it tomorrow
I have really stuck to it this week the only thing I have slacked on is the drinking of water as we have been out everyday all day and I haven't been able to just run to the loo although it hasn't made a difference I still run every 20 mins lol
Yesterday I had my trip ruined by the anger and rudeness of a coffee shop owner. He made me my sister and my mom cry when we got home. We too our own drinks for the kids which we had always done in this place but we didn't see it was a new owner. He said nicely sorry you can't drink those so all we did is say sorry and we left as this place, it is is soooooo expensive i just couldn't believe it. My sister went to say I will buy the kids a drink I said to her and no one else no it's overpriced don't worry. Well the owner was listening wasn't he.. He followed us out the shop and was yelling in my sisters face who is heavily pregnant with her 4 kids round her. I turned round and asked what was the issue he was like a child pointing at her (he was late 40s) she said It was too expensive.. I said no actually I did and it is this is my opinion which i said privately. Well we went to complain to the museum but it's private the cafe so they cant do much, but to me his behaviour reflects on the museum as the kids don't want to go there again as he ruined a perfectly lovely afternoon. He then followed us and came in saying we were rude to his staff... Funny how he knew we were complaining an old man told us no one goes in there now for the same reason and because it was expensive. Now his staff only I spoke to her she came to us after watching us putting the tables together which in my coffee shop is our staffs job. She then pounced on us before we were settled... Takes more than 3 mins to settle 4 kids under 8! So I said sorry can u come Back I'm not ready to order.. But I said it while dealing with a wriggly one year old. So he started shouting in front of everyone in my moms face and mine. I kept my calm as much as possible and explained how he was stressing a heavily pregnant women's his face he thought she was fat.
The main issue was that he thought he was above us because he thinks his coffee shop posh... I own a kebab shop a coffee shop and an Italian restaurant but I don't think myself higher than anyone.. He actually said to us maybe you all belong in a chippy. I was so upset I cried which I never do i was just so angry how he managed to turn his rudeness into an issue with us and his staff which their wasn't any issue.
People really have anger issues lately all week I have encountered rude people and it stresses me... Why do people who are so rude work in customer service. If we treated our customers how we
Have been treated in certain places
This week then I wouldn't have a
Business.
Im really sorry for waffling but I really needed to get it out, I keep replaying the situation in my head. I was beginning to think I had an attitude defect lol but when I am at home I never have any issues anywhere we go. So I'm just putting it down to half term stress lol
Good point out of this though is normally in situations like this I would reach for food for comfort and I didn't
) I didn't even think about it.
Looking forward to my weigh in I am normally a daily weigher but I haven't weighed since Tuesday .... Withdrawal!!