3500 cals to *lose* weight? Doesn't sound right somehow!
As far as tea/coffee goes, I only really have a drop of skimmed milk, really just a tiny amount so I don't bother counting it. If I have a coffee out and about I have it black anyway.
IKWYM about seeing it yourself; 5 stone, people can't have failed to notice, but your own brain does tend to lag behind the loss, so people say and that was also my experience!
As far as tea/coffee goes, I only really have a drop of skimmed milk, really just a tiny amount so I don't bother counting it. If I have a coffee out and about I have it black anyway.
IKWYM about seeing it yourself; 5 stone, people can't have failed to notice, but your own brain does tend to lag behind the loss, so people say and that was also my experience!