Bassman, think its time you dropped this. We've had enough, this is a friendly forum where we all feel we can express our feelings and ask for support and advice from like minded people. Unfortunatly having you lecture and split hairs over simple comments puts me off posting.
I can sympathise with your friends situation, but think that there were possibly other conditions and influences that lead to the outcome, and really dont think it can be compared to me eating a dozen marshmallows.
I would be grateful if you did not comment or advise me on anything in the future.
Due respect and thanks
W2BYM