Thanks Jen - I think everyone is different and like you say, finds their own path. I'm so glad of the support here (and with my colleagues too) because it's making me motivated to continue.
Yesterday I was 100% ON PLAN (well, on plan without afternoon carbs.) I had additional salad with dinner and a little more milk than perhaps I should have, but I was still under 1000cals, so happy. One day down and two more to go until OH and I go out Thursday night, then straight back on plan Friday before WI on Sat, then NO weekend off the wagon behaviour this week - I need to start getting this gain shifted.
The more on plan days I do, the more I feel positive about sticking with it. Went for a wee walk at lunch yesterday too instead of sitting at my desk the whole time - I think the more I do stuff, the more motivated I feel. Though I have my run tonight, I might pop out for a little walk anyway - I feel like I need to avoid supermarkets at the moment as I was beginning to get tempted by things again.
Yesterday I read someone's post about working weekly to get rid of the weekend gain will never get the additional weight shifted and I realised this is what I had started to do - using the weekends to enjoy off plan meals does not work when you've still got bigger losses to get rid of. My problem is that i'd begun a half maintenance, half diet kind of thing, and i'm just not there yet. Trying to stick to the diet was making me cheat, and trying maintenance, not properly with restrictions in place was making me cheat too.
So, moving forward this week, I am 100% on plan, except for one meal out with OH. I will enjoy it as it's our valentine's treat, and stick with the plan for the rest, including Saturday and Sunday!! It'll be interesting to see if no evening carbs is going to help this week - I might stick with that for next week too. I was watching a food program with Tom Kerridge at the weekend who has lost over 9st. He's cut out booze and carbs and was saying that though he's cut the carbs, he hasn't compromised on flavour - I love his style of cooking and hope he elaborates more on the no carb thing with a program or some recipes.
Planning ahead, I need to stick with step 3 until the end of Feb I think, and then look into the possibility of step 4 for March. I've always said i'd move up the steps, but i'm sort of thinking that if I can find my own rhythm with step 4, I might just stick with that. I don't really like the idea of having lots of carbs again, so I might limit this to something at breakfast, and something at dinnertime with none for lunch. I genuinely feel that this has been a great way of showing just what you need and don't need food wise...
So - proper maintenance plan is thus:
- Healthy eating in the week, with limited carbs. Using whole varieties when possible (brown rice/pasta etc)
- 2 treats per week - a meal/a single item. One treat and then cut back again.
- a bit more freedom at weekends, but not going crazy. One meal in each day is a treat - all three meals is gluttony!
- Continue running program, and then aim to run 2/3 times a week
- Use my bike more - aim for once a week, but try at least once a month.
- Start a morning/evening routine of stretches/toning exercises - I need to start doing this! Things like planks/sit ups etc. Something which takes 20 minutes in the evening that I can do every day.
I am forward planning majorly, but just want to put down what my actual plan for maintaining is. I want to lead a healthy lifestyle once my CWP journey is over, but I need to get there first! My problem is trying to do maintenance and the plan all at once, and failing at both!
Sorry for the epic post! What are your plans for maintaining after CWP?
xx