lol dont be silly anne! you shouldnt be sorry about me having to reply..etc. i'd rathre have replied to everyone else rather than post my own, tbh! and the bbq isnt really saga material...i;d just say...hmm...curiousity, maybe?
well...
remember last week when i mentioned i had an "overly emotional weekend & it involved an issue with hubby"?
ok so last friday, mmy hubby forwarded me an email that had a funny photo in it he wanted to share with me...this email was also sent to one of his pals in california. i scrolled down to the bottom to find the pic...but i found other interesting reading material instead! the ding dong hubby is an IT expert and you'd think he, of all people, would think to send the pic in a new email instead of having all his conversations back n forth with this guy in it, wouldt you?? heheh
to put it in a nutshell, the hubby said something to his friend and it kinda went like this: "you know that girl i told you about? tall & slim? ...((and it went on as boys sometimes do , about boob size))... and then it went on with: i'd never do anything because it would cost me dearly...but i wish i could sometimes..."
needless to say, when i read that:
!!! i knew exactly who he was speaking about, a girl from the office.
my first feeling was all about..Oh no! should i be worried? threatened? etc? ((as one would, right?)) and then my second immediate thought was: tall & slim? bigg boobied?? and here i am short and fat, and losing my boobs as i lose weight! and then my 3rd reaction was: but this
is Dave we're talking about here...i hate to say this, but he's not the type to stray and play about. i have great confidence in the fact that he would tell me he'd rather be with someone else and we'd take it from there, instead of effing me about. and of course, my reaction after i calmed down and stopped shaking was: he did say to his pal that he wouldnt do anything cos it would cost him dearly...so i had to take that into consideration.
but of course, me being female, i went a little crazy, agro, mad... and wanted to eat (but i didnt, as explained last weekend). so then when he got home from work that day, knowing i read this, he started to explain the issue, etc. but the Dummy dug himself in
even deeper and told me that this alleged "shy and timid" woman said to him a few weeks prior: "i'm not into breaking up families but i do quite fancy you and would like to be with you, do you think there would ever be a chance?"
:sign0007:
he told me he said no of course and that he was flattered, etc. annnyways, i calmed and we discussed it, or rather he listened to my concerns. hehehe we're allll cool and great as ever, etc. When im in a rational state of mind, i know there isnt a threat. but of course i curiously wanted to see what she looked like, meet her.
and she was at the bbq! ok first of all, yes i was on my best behaviour and no one wouldve ever known that i knew about her interest i my husby. i met her. she was very nice. and quiet kinda. pretty in a plain sort of way. but pretty none the less ( i will be fair even though i dont wanna be LOL)).
and second of all, she DOES NOT have big booies, and she IS NOT tall. like he told him pal in the email... so i felt better about myself in a weird way. i cant explain it. but i did.
he says he was just winding up his pal about what this girl really looked like. Just being boys i think.
however, i tiny tiny part of me was still on patrol...and i felt like i really really needed to eat! ((all emotional of course!)). like when i knew husby was inside, she later followed and i coldnt help but be curious. i mean, really, he may have told her there's no chance ever, but that doesnt stop some women from trying. we all know what our species are like, right?? heheh
well, at the end of the day, i didnt cave to the glorious smell of the bbq with my emotions running a little on edge...and i even think the girl was nice. maybe even a little intimidated by me cos im a bit more of an extrovert and a bit bigger.
and there will probably be more opportunity for me to get to know her and i'll be fair again and say that i'll welcome the opp. Plus i think it was very important for her to see us as the strong family unit that we are. if you know what i mean.
ok ok ok. story time is over. i just had to vent.
siholog:
thanks for listening. and if it was at all entertaining, even better! i find it funny myself, now...that i've chilled the :::Beep:: out. heheh
I Do hope you are all having a nice sunday! be strong when making the famiy those roast dinners! :drool: Just keep in mind that we already know what they taste like and we will get our time again (mind you with great portion control) to taste again!
WE"D RATHER BE TRIMMER PEOPLE THAN WASTE IT ON A LICK OF GRAVY!
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