Nikki's post - pregnancy time to get to target SW diary!

You ladies really are so lovely with all your advice and kind words. It means the world to me when people care so much like all 3 of you so clearly do.

Millie is being tube fed formula because her sodium is so high they can see how dehydrated she is. Its so upsetting seeing her like that and feeling helpless but i know she is in the best place possible. If it means formula from now on then ill happily do it. Im going to try expressing in the morning and see how much im producing and if its enough ill invest in an electric pump to help.

It doesnt help that i have the dickiest belly ever from the laxatives and am practically doubled over in pain :-( its 4.30 now and it has eased. In fact there cant be much left in me!! Haha.

awe nikki was thinking of you last night. millie is getting what she needs and just you watch, she will be thriving and more settled by the time you get her home. just watch you don't burn yourself out. you have had hardly any sleep and running on adrenaline. try hard to rest while she is in hospital. i ended up with infection even though i never had one stitch as i was on the go constantly. huge hugs and thanks for updating. mummy knows best no matter what lol x x
 
Oh Nikki, so sorry to hear Millie has been taken into hospital, but like you say at least she's been looked after.... could it be the laxatives effecting your milk? I don't know how it works at all but just wondering if they're getting rid of everything before your having time to produce it... like you say if you have to move onto formula then there's nothing wrong with that, at least you tried and also formula fed babies are healthy and happy as well, I think formula these days is full of loads of goodness. I know someone who tried breastfeeding but her little one was allergic to her milk so she had to move onto formula, he's now a very healthy little 18 month old.


Just popped in to let you know my thoughts are with you all and I hope Millie is home again soon xxxx
 
Oh and you have in no way let her down, its obvious how much you love and care for her, she's a very lucky little lady don't ever blame yourself for this, she'll be back where she belongs soon xxx
 
Thanks for the well wishes ladies. Millie is picking up and getting the fluids she needs. We are staying in again tonight because the breast feeding lady is helping me get a good supply going and is making me use an electric pump so they can feed millie directly with my milk. Feel so sorry for her just laying on the hospital bed, but she is in the right place and we are going to be home very soon xx
 
Thanks for the well wishes ladies. Millie is picking up and getting the fluids she needs. We are staying in again tonight because the breast feeding lady is helping me get a good supply going and is making me use an electric pump so they can feed millie directly with my milk. Feel so sorry for her just laying on the hospital bed, but she is in the right place and we are going to be home very soon xx

Are you using a medela pump? I've got a medela mini which I need to use for 5 mins each side after feeding cause I need to use a nipple shield the pump helps empty me and keep up a good supply. It's a bit of a pain but its what I need to do to keep Isobel gaining weight.
Poor Millie I'm sure she's gonna thrive now you've had some treatment and good advice re breastfeeding. It's so tricky for something that's meant to happen "naturally" . Xx
 
Are you using a medela pump? I've got a medela mini which I need to use for 5 mins each side after feeding cause I need to use a nipple shield the pump helps empty me and keep up a good supply. It's a bit of a pain but its what I need to do to keep Isobel gaining weight.
Poor Millie I'm sure she's gonna thrive now you've had some treatment and good advice re breastfeeding. It's so tricky for something that's meant to happen "naturally" . Xx

Yeh its a medala in hospital and i think ill buy one tomorrow for home. Its really frustrating that for a first time mum ive had no support for breast feeding at all. The hospital have been great though and have the most wonderful lady here helping. Xx
 
So proud of how well Millie is doing. We are beteeen us managing to get a good amount of breast milk into her :)
 

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clever girls!!! its a hard slog trying to bf but you will get there..x
 
clever girls!!! its a hard slog trying to bf but you will get there..x
 
Nikki I am so glad they are helping you to continue to breastfeed, it isn't easy but it's so worth it. Well done, ye will be home again in no time. Is Millie taking it from a bottle or are they tube feeding her?
 
Well i tried and tried my hardest with breast feeding. I tried to pump but nothing was coming out. So after much deliberation we are on formula. I wanted to express but it seems that its so time consuming because they said i should be doing it every 4 hours and I just want to make sure she is feeding.

We came out of hospital yesterday and out of the 1.5lb she had lost she had already put back on 0.5lb so she is going great guns :)
 
Thats brilliant news Nikki, so pleased for you all. In the end you have to do whats best for Millie & she's obviously doing so much better on the formula. xx
 
Aw Nikki sometimes formula is just the only option Imogen is a strong happy toddler thanks to cow and gates finest lol :) well done Millie for your .5lb gain :) x
 
Well i tried and tried my hardest with breast feeding. I tried to pump but nothing was coming out. So after much deliberation we are on formula. I wanted to express but it seems that its so time consuming because they said i should be doing it every 4 hours and I just want to make sure she is feeding.

We came out of hospital yesterday and out of the 1.5lb she had lost she had already put back on 0.5lb so she is going great guns :)

good stuff..it was taking me while to express and then little one wd take hour to drink out bottle as he had problems sooking then it was time express again.
your doing the right thing x
 
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