That is exactly the right way to be thinking Katie, I thought I could go back to eating normally (pizza, chips, bread, cereal blah blah blah) but I can't if I want to keep my weight down. The penny dropped a couple of weeks ago that I was just being stupid about it and every Monday brought me the same challenge as the week before, and perhaps an even bigger challenge................so this Monday I actually weighed less than Friday, not a lot less but definitely not more which is a huge step forward for me. Will keep on working on it, because it really is a head thing for me.