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[L.i.n.d.a]

cant walk for long as my ankles not really recovering after fractures/ligament damage; I struggle also with my breathing when walking upstairs; boobs and torso worse parts cant see my feet; I cant fit into my plus size clothes. Im unemployable due to being nearly 20 stone...SO WHAT WILL MAKE ME BLOODY WAKE UP AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT...heading for early exit....wanna live and be slim, wanna wear shorts, sleeveless dresses, show my tum in bikini, wanna go on holiday, swim. Im 41, I feel 101...I need so much help....If anyone is out there, my posts tell parts of my story....*

 

[carrieclaus]

Hope you can get your head in the right place. There is lots of support on here, what diet are you doing? Im here xx

 

[tranquility]

The only thing stopping you from doing some of those things is you. You are certainly not unemployable because of your weight. You have some mobility problems which stop you getting fitter at present but you could get some hand weights (or filled diet coke bottles) and sit on a chair and do some upper body exercises. Book yourself a holiday OK so bikini and shorts may be out of the question but you can still have a holiday. There is no point putting everything on hold until you lose the weight, life is to be enjoyed whatever challenges life throws at us. Problems don't miraculously disappear with the weight, they hang around still unresolved.

Hope you manage to find a way to make progress. I started by just aiming for one good diet day a week.

 

[L.i.n.d.a]

Thanks for your comment...Im too poor as unemployed for holiday, ive not been abroad and passport out of date 20 years ago. I also have cubital tunnel syndrome affects my arms...I need a miracle....

 

[L.i.n.d.a]

Ps im not currently on any diet...both sw and ww work when done properly...prob find ww easier but if i ever get my head right to restart will do myself as cannot afford class...thanks folks*