Surfhunny's Countdown to Florida
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old_user45
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You do look lovely in it Hun, although I'd ditch the 'headless' look!! Yep, defo wear your head to the wedding, or you'll get some funny looks!!
MinnieMel
Why Be Normal?
p.s...... i saw a beautiful top from a next e-mail and it was with skinny jeans so i've order myself some. not sure if i can pile myself into them though. can't really stand tight stuff, especially as i have excess skin everywhere including my waist/back part and it might lump out. thought it might be nice one evening for disneyland.
Buy Flower Print Kimono Top from the Next UK online shop
here the blue top and black jeans.
Nikki,
I think those would look really good on you. You are nice and tall so you can wear a long belted top like that and look glam. I think it'd hide any bumps -- and your legs are very well shaped from all your fitness, so you can get away with skinny jeans.
MM
Surfhunny
Laugh in the face of food
Well I've written all my thoughts down for this meeting tomorrow. I'm totally sh!tting myself. My friend has just been on the phone telling me LM has been b!tching about me for calling this meeting... WTF I haven't called it, it's Big Boss that's called it!!
He's going to be in a right stonk tomorrow, apparently he doesn't see what it's got to do with him and is not going to say a word at the meeting - what a bloody child!!!
My concerns and the nursing sisters concerns are the same so at least we can back each other up. I'm going to have to be strong and assertive and I'm scared to death because I hate being in a confrontation. If LM wasn't there I'd be fine as BB is great.
Fook!!!!!!! I know I might be borrowing trouble ( Mel) but I have this sense that nothing good is going to come of this meeting and I'm scared that I won't come across well because of LMs presence.
He's going to be in a right stonk tomorrow, apparently he doesn't see what it's got to do with him and is not going to say a word at the meeting - what a bloody child!!!
My concerns and the nursing sisters concerns are the same so at least we can back each other up. I'm going to have to be strong and assertive and I'm scared to death because I hate being in a confrontation. If LM wasn't there I'd be fine as BB is great.
Fook!!!!!!! I know I might be borrowing trouble (
Mel) but I have this sense that nothing good is going to come of this meeting and I'm scared that I won't come across well because of LMs presence.
cornishkez
Gold Member
Well all you can do is be as strong and assertive as you can. You and your friend can back each other up and hopefully show LM up for the childish nasty bully he is.
I am sure you big boss knows what's going on really, but maybe just chooses to let it carry on as she is getting what she wants (company wants) out if things. So this is your oppurtunity to address thing and let her know they are getting out of hand and people are unhappy.
Don't be intimidated by him, he's cold a d callous and from what you've said is likely to play the sweet and innocent card. So don't play into his hands by getting uptight, flustered or distressed (if possible ). Remain calm and rational and I bet his will be put right off his game.
I am sure you big boss knows what's going on really, but maybe just chooses to let it carry on as she is getting what she wants (company wants) out if things. So this is your oppurtunity to address thing and let her know they are getting out of hand and people are unhappy.
Don't be intimidated by him, he's cold a d callous and from what you've said is likely to play the sweet and innocent card. So don't play into his hands by getting uptight, flustered or distressed (if possible ). Remain calm and rational and I bet his will be put right off his game.
Surfhunny
Laugh in the face of food
Interesting..... Just checked my FB and LM has commented on my status from last night, which was ..... Wants to know what it's all about? Find out tomorrow I guess! He put: Me too! No snide comments so I'm guessing he hasn't a clue either!! Ha but at least it's clear to him now that I haven't called the meeting and it's BB. Might make things a bit easier on my part (I hope)!!!
great things
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Stay relaxed focused and don't get pi$$ed by your LM! Chill is the order of the day!
MinnieMel
Why Be Normal?
Hi Sal,
I wrote you a long post, then my browser shut down and restarted, ugh!
Anyway, it was a mostly "buck up, you know you are good at your job and LM is a tool, and it could simply be a meeting about policies, procedures, etc. and nothing personal at all."
Good luck and I hope things go well.
MM
I wrote you a long post, then my browser shut down and restarted, ugh!
Anyway, it was a mostly "buck up, you know you are good at your job and LM is a tool, and it could simply be a meeting about policies, procedures, etc. and nothing personal at all."
Good luck and I hope things go well.
MM
Surfhunny
Laugh in the face of food
Well the meeting was absolutely horrendous it was basically about ways we can make my service the best it can be. But LM behaved like a complete arse!!! He totally belittled me, didn't give me chance to speak and if I managed to get a word in he was so negative and put me down. To the point where nothing really got sorted, and I'd carefully written out my issues and ways they could be resolved so I was cross.
But BB had got the measure of him and had told LM off a few times, but at the end of the meeting BB let him go but kept me and the nursing sister back after the meeting for a chat. She was appalled by LMs behavior and wanted to sort things out without him. NS said he always behaves like that and has a particular 'thing' against me and my patients. BB agreed that it was very apparent. She was going to reprimand him, and he's gone home in a huff now, bloody spoilt child!!!
Anyway, it all worked out in the end, we've come to some good conclusions without LMs presence!
I'm just on lunch break now, had my shake and on the table in front of me is a tub full of cupcakes. I've resisted them no problem, when I first spotted them I thought "ooh I deserve a cupcake after the morning I've had" but then common sense got the better of me, I won't feel better after having one, I'll feel worse, and I'm now quite happy to leave them. Yay me
it was basically about ways we can make my service the best it can be. But LM behaved like a complete arse!!! He totally belittled me, didn't give me chance to speak and if I managed to get a word in he was so negative and put me down. To the point where nothing really got sorted, and I'd carefully written out my issues and ways they could be resolved so I was cross.But BB had got the measure of him and had told LM off a few times, but at the end of the meeting BB let him go but kept me and the nursing sister back after the meeting for a chat. She was appalled by LMs behavior and wanted to sort things out without him. NS said he always behaves like that and has a particular 'thing' against me and my patients. BB agreed that it was very apparent. She was going to reprimand him, and he's gone home in a huff now, bloody spoilt child!!!
Anyway, it all worked out in the end, we've come to some good conclusions without LMs presence!
I'm just on lunch break now, had my shake and on the table in front of me is a tub full of cupcakes. I've resisted them no problem, when I first spotted them I thought "ooh I deserve a cupcake after the morning I've had" but then common sense got the better of me, I won't feel better after having one, I'll feel worse, and I'm now quite happy to leave them. Yay me
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cornishkez
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What time is the meeting? Good luck! x
cornishkez
Gold Member
Oooh, cross post! Yay, see I told you she'd know what was going on really. Us woman don't often get fooled by a bloke.
So glad she can see he is a muppet and that the NS pointed out his issue with you. He's threatened by you hun, thats all it boils down to!
And well done on the cupcake!
So glad she can see he is a muppet and that the NS pointed out his issue with you. He's threatened by you hun, thats all it boils down to!
And well done on the cupcake!
cornishkez
Gold Member
And again!
great things
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Fantastic glad she really has the gist of him your life might get easier in a way cause you secretly know that she knows but does he lol
glad she really has the gist of him your life might get easier in a way cause you secretly know that she knows but does he lol
