Surfhunny's Countdown to Florida
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Surfhunny
Laugh in the face of food
Oh dear, I'm going to have to drag myself out of the house shortly, it's my friends little boys 3rd birthday party at 3pm, and I'm still hung over from my birthday night out last night 
feeling very queasy and have splitting headache. Not good with a bunch of 3 year olds running riot
Tomorrow I'm at a BBQ at my friends then on Tuesday I'm going out for my actual birthday for a meal with my family. I'm sick of eating already I can't wait for next Monday when I can get back on CD!!! Still got London to fit in yet! Looking forward to that though!
feeling very queasy and have splitting headache. Not good with a bunch of 3 year olds running riot Tomorrow I'm at a BBQ at my friends then on Tuesday I'm going out for my actual birthday for a meal with my family. I'm sick of eating already
I can't wait for next Monday when I can get back on CD!!! Still got London to fit in yet! Looking forward to that though!
Surfhunny
Laugh in the face of food
Hmmm I've just got in from the BBQ and we've all been talking about going to Disney again next year. This is where I really hate being single I'm going to have to pay a single supplement, it would be so much easier (and nicer) if I had an OH to go with instead of being the single gooseberry all the time. It won't be too bad if we decide to get a villa but it looks like we're going to stay in a hotel.
BUT on the other hand this is the motivation that could help me stay focussed with my weight loss. Last time I went to Florida I missed out on quite a bit because I SS'd, I wouldn't change that for the world but I would like to experience some of the things I missed out on this time.
I really hope we do go, I need a holiday and it'll make me feel better about not having one this year!
I'm going to have to pay a single supplement, it would be so much easier (and nicer) if I had an OH to go with instead of being the single gooseberry all the time. It won't be too bad if we decide to get a villa but it looks like we're going to stay in a hotel.BUT on the other hand this is the motivation that could help me stay focussed with my weight loss. Last time I went to Florida I missed out on quite a bit because I SS'd, I wouldn't change that for the world but I would like to experience some of the things I missed out on this time.
I really hope we do go, I need a holiday and it'll make me feel better about not having one this year!
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back put on 6lb today. put on 3lb before hols. want to loose 14lb. 810 as of tomorrow cause i've been out spending at the metro all day! well spending on the kids. bought some stuff for RFL on sunday. decided to do it with ems. have got a hula skirt, pink wings, pink bunny ears for us both to wear.
put on 6lb today. put on 3lb before hols. want to loose 14lb. 810 as of tomorrow cause i've been out spending at the metro all day! well spending on the kids. bought some stuff for RFL on sunday. decided to do it with ems. have got a hula skirt, pink wings, pink bunny ears for us both to wear.
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Hmmm I've just got in from the BBQ and we've all been talking about going to Disney again next year. This is where I really hate being single
BUT on the other hand this is the motivation that could help me stay focussed with my weight loss. Last time I went to Florida I missed out on quite a bit because I SS'd, I wouldn't change that for the world but I would like to experience some of the things I missed out on this time.
I really hope we do go, I need a holiday and it'll make me feel better about not having one this year!
can we come too pls? you can shack up with emily if you like!
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just need my mega focus back. daft thing is i'm not fat enough to do ss+ which is probably easier than the 810 in terms of getting going as there's no eating!
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i say ss+ in terms of 4 shakes and milk cause i love my coffee!
*Shanny*
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PMSL... How funny Mel
Surfhunny
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Oh dear I've just got all emotional, I'm pretty sure it's partly because it's my birthday tomorrow and it's yet another year on my own, and partly being at the BBQ today with all my friends and being the only single one. It just goes to remind me that I'm all alone, it just makes me really sad. My life has not turned out at all like I wanted it to. I never wanted to be a career girl, it's good that I'm financially secure etc but money can't buy you everything I feel like I'm being punished for something, and I have to spend my life alone and lonely. :cry:
I feel like I'm being punished for something, and I have to spend my life alone and lonely. :cry:
MinnieMel
Why Be Normal?
Aw Sal,
You are so young. Please do not allow yourself to feel this way.
You are so much better off not having settled for a Mr. "Just Okay" or worse.
There are what? Seven Billion people on this planet and there is someone -- a good match, your better half, etc. out there for you.
I think that when you have "sorted yourself" (you are working on your weight, health, career, past traumas, etc.) you will be open to the right person and a healthy relationship -- and it will happen for you.
I have said many times that it is better to wait and get it right, than rush into anything and have to try and undo or worse -- live stuck in bad situation.
I called to comfort my beloved aunt, when she was getting divorced after 36 years of marriage, she told me, "I am not sorry I am doing this. I suspected before I married him I was probably making a mistake. And, I really wish I had left 25 years ago, when I was sure I had. Promise me you won't waste your life sticking with a bad decision."
Sal - this should be a happy birthday for you. Your leg is better. You are doing well with your job. You have loads of friends. You looked fab in those wedding photos. You have lost weight, and will lose the rest. You are about to go and visit a friend in London. You own your own home and your dad did an amazing job on your bath. And he is willing and able to do these things for you. (My dad is thousands of miles away and in very poor health. And wouldn't do it for me, if he could.)
Happy Birthday -- please try and enjoy this next trip around the sun!
Mel
You are so young. Please do not allow yourself to feel this way.
You are so much better off not having settled for a Mr. "Just Okay" or worse.
There are what? Seven Billion people on this planet and there is someone -- a good match, your better half, etc. out there for you.
I think that when you have "sorted yourself" (you are working on your weight, health, career, past traumas, etc.) you will be open to the right person and a healthy relationship -- and it will happen for you.
I have said many times that it is better to wait and get it right, than rush into anything and have to try and undo or worse -- live stuck in bad situation.
I called to comfort my beloved aunt, when she was getting divorced after 36 years of marriage, she told me, "I am not sorry I am doing this. I suspected before I married him I was probably making a mistake. And, I really wish I had left 25 years ago, when I was sure I had. Promise me you won't waste your life sticking with a bad decision."
Sal - this should be a happy birthday for you. Your leg is better. You are doing well with your job. You have loads of friends. You looked fab in those wedding photos. You have lost weight, and will lose the rest. You are about to go and visit a friend in London. You own your own home and your dad did an amazing job on your bath. And he is willing and able to do these things for you. (My dad is thousands of miles away and in very poor health. And wouldn't do it for me, if he could.)
Happy Birthday -- please try and enjoy this next trip around the sun!
Mel
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ems loves goofy. he's her favorite. before we left paris disney. we went back to our hotel to get our luggage and goofy and mickey were there dancing in the lobby. mickey grabbed me and started dancing with me. hubby was gobsmacked so no footage. the goofy grabbed me. i blew him a kiss at the end and he put his hand on his heart lol. so funny. i'm sure i was red in the face!
i would kill to go to florida with the kids and hubby! we'd need our room and a kids room. i really really want to go. im desperate. i think i love disney more than the kids and more than hubby knows!
i would kill to go to florida with the kids and hubby! we'd need our room and a kids room. i really really want to go. im desperate. i think i love disney more than the kids and more than hubby knows!
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Oh dear I've just got all emotional, I'm pretty sure it's partly because it's my birthday tomorrow and it's yet another year on my own, and partly being at the BBQ today with all my friends and being the only single one. It just goes to remind me that I'm all alone, it just makes me really sad. My life has not turned out at all like I wanted it to. I never wanted to be a career girl, it's good that I'm financially secure etc but money can't buy you everything
i really do know how you feel! i didn't have a date until i was 25 years old. i slept with my first guy when i was 17 but wasn't much of a thing. he was my best mate and we never saw each other again afterwards, such a shame! i didn't meet the right man until i was 29 and we married 2 years later in august 2005. emily was born dec 2006, matthew april 2009. i was 36 when i had matthew. don't think of the clock, think of you! i knew when i met hubby that he was the one. please wait for your 'one', he's out there waiting for you! you just haven't found him and he hasn't found you!
*Shanny*
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OOoooh sal big hugs.. we all care for you..! xxI hope you're both right, I'm so fed up with being alone. I hate feeling like this.
