Could 'grumpy pants' keep a surprise, do you think he has other plans or that really it, just the two of you not talking!!!
I know Bob couldn't keep a secret & if there was something planned I'd know about it. I remember our 25th last year we had a row about celebrating, he didn't & I did, funny thing is we only celebrated our 1st anniversary & then didn't bother after that.
I know it's hard but try & make up, life is too short to be grumpy with each other, have a special meal in, it's not the same, but maybe it's a compromise? xx