Morning everyone. Saturday was a total disaster, I am still mad about it now.
We had a lovely afternoon getting ready and having a few drinks in Katie's before we all went out. The taxi picked us up at 8.45 and we started off in Yates. We got a free bottle of bubbly (cheap crap lol) from the DJ and then we headed off up to Varsity.
Waited at the bar for ages and bought a bottle of Becks for Katie, a bottle of Kopperberg for myself, and a Jagerbomb each. We went outside to sit on the balcony and wait for the others, when my cousin decided she wanted to go home as she'd had a migraine all day. Not a problem - can't help feeling poorly. Her sister was picking her up so me and another girl walked her down to the marketplace so that she wouldn't be on her own.
By the time we walked back up to Varisty (literally in the space of 10 minutes), Katie was mortal drunk, couldn't walk and was crying that she wanted to go home! This was 22:07 - we'd be lucky if we'd been out 2 hours!! I was angry and gutted, but I wasn't going to leave her. Her mam phoned the minibus but the earliest we could get was 22:45, so we went for some food first (after leaving the drinks I had just spent £15 on completely untouched) and then walked to where we were being picked up. What annoyed me though, was that out of 16 of us that went out, there were 4 of us that stayed with her. Her mam even stayed out and asked us to let her know when Katie got home. I just thought, hang on isn't this the wrong way round!
To make things worse Katie got quite aggressive towards us which made me even more mad and upset. I had spent all that time organising it, ordering sashes and shot glasses etc. for us all, to then be taking her home at that time of night whilst everyone else stayed out. We were the only ones to stay with her and we were still getting abuse for it. What more could we do. I was so close that night to telling her to find another bridesmaid if that's how little she thought of me, but just tried to keep my mouth shut.
Anyway, got home Katie stormed off up the stairs to bed. Felt awful as her fiance had the lads round for a poker night which obviously then got messed up with us landing back in the house! One girl had come back with me (as her boyfriend was there) and the other two went out to a nightclub where we live. I stayed up for a little while until everyone left, and then climbed into the bed in the spare room. Had an awful nights sleep and just got up in the morning, packed my stuff and got a taxi home before she woke up. Couldn't bare to see her.
Have spoken to her since and she has apologised. I told her to just forget about it, but I am still feeling miffed. So all in all, not a great weekend.
One positive though is that I had no hangover yesterday. I didn't have time to drink enough to warrant a hangover!!
Was kinda half on plan, half off yesterday. Meals were on plan, but probably had more Syns than I should have. I'd have had more than that if we'd stayed out all night on Saturday though, so I'm not going to beat myself up about it. Back on it 100% today!