The really slow loss team!

Gutted to have put on 1lb this week:confused:: honestly had to hold back the tears at class!
I can only think I did not eat enough as I ate nothing I shouldn't have:cry:
Maybe the wedding I went to 2 weeks ago affected my weight this week?
OH even said give up but that's because I suffer from anxiety and depression and also I wont go out for meals as I am scared of putting on weight! Maybe I need a fresh look at this as I know I can make good meal choices out and just need to write everything down for this week! Sorry just needed a rant!:)
 
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to pomette from hels...seeing as she isnt on her laptop (and of course from me too!)

Thanks Lou :)

I'm still buzzing for you, Pommette. Target. How amazing and seeing as I'm on my PC at work now:553::talk017::party0011::party0023::party0038::greenapple::party0036::banana dancer::eating:

Woooo.
 
Ooooooo Bev - WELL DONE!!!!
 
holidaygirl, you have a choice hun, you CAN quit but you will put the weight all back on which will lead you to feel more down, or you can take the gain on the chin and dust yourself off and keep trying. weve all been there when you have a gain that you didnt deserve, and we seem to focus on that rather than all the losses weve had and all the undeserved losses that weve all had too, i only lost half this week and i was hungry all week yet the week before id cheated all weekend and lost 2, i didnt deserve that 2 loss at all so i had to take the small loss on the chin and think i was lucky not to gain really, as i think sometimes it does catch up with you. and on the subject of not eating enough i think this is so true, think of your metabolism like a fire, by giving it not enough you keep it going at a slow burn and it slows down, if you eat enough of the right stuff you can get the fire roaring and keeping going, i have cut syns right back before and not lost a thing then other times ive had the max syns and had a much better loss. i suffer with panic attacks and depression from time to time too, it stemmed from getting pnd with my middle child, and i know what you mean i get all panicky at times about certain stuff, so i have to force myself to take a step back, you have to have a life around slimming, it cant rule your life hun and you have to find a way to enjoy yourself and keep on the straight and narrow, research where you like going for meals and find out exactly how many syns are in your favourite meals and which meals are lower in syns and budget for them or make better choices. i was struggling to have a drink on a weekend and still manage to lose weight but the last 2 weeks ive managed it by not pigging out when im drunk and not sitting and eating junk the next day which was my downfall, i try to make sure ive got quick snacky healthy stuff in and minimise syns after, its been working for me so far. ive decided to keep a food diary of the stuff i plan to eat then what i actually end up eating and what it was that triped me up and stopped me having my planned meal, in the hope i can identify more problem areas and work around them...maybe this would help you x
 
Thank you all ladies - still smiling 24 hours later!

Thank you for all your help and support on our little tortoise diary. It really has helped over the last 9 months!

Right, off to pack and then off to the airport. See you all on 4th December.
 
Lou - great advice girlie!

Bev - enjoy your holiday my lovely and don't get too hung up about any small gain, you can get it off again, just concentrate on having a fantastic time!!

 
conlou1: I can't thank you enough for taking the time to respond so wonderfully to me: I will take note of your advice and be positive: you are so right, I would feel worse if I stopped now and put on the weight I have succesfully lost:)
I know I can do it and life is a bit of a rollercoaster really isn't it, for all of us:rolleyes:
Thanks so much:)
 
Hello everyone, I am so sorry, I have been away for so long, things have just been so busy. I know I'm not part of the regular commenters on here but I always love reading through all your posts. :)

I haven't been on here recently just because I'm in a bit of a rut at the moment. I go through cycles with SW, it seems - I'll have a month or so where I lose well (1/2-1lb week) and all seems to be going great. And then I'll hit a wall and not lose for like a month or more. That's what I'm doing now. I haven't lost ANYTHING for a month now...haven't put anything on (thank goodness) but have maintained.

Basically it's because my life just makes it so hard to stick to SW. Since moving, I seem to have next to no time to plan my food, and because I share meals with my flatmates, often I am not the only one choosing what I eat, so although we eat healthy stuff and use Fry Light etc, it makes it hard to stay on a proper Red/EE day etc. I lose so slowly/not at all on EE (which I try and stick to as much as possible), especially if I'm not doing it perfectly, and should really do Red days, but if my flatmates cook a big stirfry with rice or noodles in before I get home (and keep mine warm, for example), there's not a lot I can do about it.

I try to make my own lunches and stuff but still, keeping on having a 'bit' there and 'bit more' there of stuff that doesn't quite fit into plan....

Add in to that the amount of times I go out and see people (not big nights out drinking, but just for quick drinks, glass of wine, dinner, coffee and cake with old friends, pizza with mates in front of Strictly etc)

Really it's just feeling impossible to get into the swing of things again at the moment.

Also I'm finding it so, so tough to limit my syns. I know I'm not the only one but for me chocolate and other stuff is SUCH a comfort at the end of a long day, or a hard day, or when I'm tired, or lonely or upset.....getting a theme here?! SW has helped me stop eating rubbish just because I'm bored, but I'm still struggling with the emotional side of stuff. Anyone have the same problem?

Anyway I have my weigh in at lunchtime today, and I'll have a good chat with my consultant, and let you know how it goes.

Sorry again for being away for so long, I don't want it to seem like I just come here when I need help (although I like doing that too!!)

Enough about me - POMETTE, omg, congratulations on reaching target!!!! You must be absolutely OVER THE MOON, I just can't imagine - fantastic news!! :party0038:

And Conlou to Holidaygirl, what a fantastic post. :) I've had a good read through and it is just all such good motivational advice, you're giving me the get up and go I need to go to weigh in with my chin up despite knowing I probably haven't lost again this week.

I (we!) can do it....

Sending everyone good thoughts xXx


 
hannah...the fact you havent been following plan yet have stayed the same is great! dont be so hard on yourself hun, you have to have a life as ie previously said and its just finding ways to tweak it to make it work (easier said than done i know lol) but just try to change one thing that you know is tripping you up would maybe be a good start? maybe instead of a chocolate bar, what about a couple of double chocolate alpen lights and a highlights hot chocolate, this always cures my chocolate fix. and maybe have a chat with your flat mates, ask them to not put certain things on your plate or maybe just not make you anything and that youll make your own, explain your not being ungrateful but their food is so yummy you cant resist it and its not helping with your weight loss? and maybe you could cook them some slimming world recipes out of the mags and leave the mags laying about and it may inspire them to want to eat the foods if it all tastes nice and looks nice. i know its hard when you live with people who arent eating healthy, i had this battle with the hubby but hes gone on a health kick and has asked me not to buy chocolate or unhealthy stuff anymore and its making it alot easier for me, try get them on board if you can? but if not i find the tesco or asda prepared veg a godsend, its all chopped and in a little bag, you just pierce the bag, bang in the micro for 4 and a half minutes and its done, and it tastes lovely, and i often have this with a chicken breast or salmon. i hae found the pennies in a jar to be the most helpful tool for controlling my syns...decide how many you want to have for the week, i aim for 10 a day..so 70 in total. i put 70 pennies in a glass then each time i have something with syns in i have to take the relevant amount of pennies out of the jar...it makes you think more about what your eating and is a great visualisation tool. and basically when youve spent them all-stop. the week i did that i lost 3 whole pounds!! and i was doing a mix of red and extra easy days. the biggest thing for me is alcohol, its my personal demon, i cant say no, i dont know when to stop and i have no self control when im drunk and i get the worst hangovers and crave junk, its so bad, i wish i could give it up but i like it too much haha. we all have our crosses to bear its about accepting it about yourself and working with it i think. i have switched to vodka lime and soda or gin and slimline tonic, instead of wine, i only have singles and i have found im not as drunk, i dont have half as bad a hangover and i am more in control the next day. if you get a take away in front of the telly, maybe have a chicken kebab instead of pizza? or a chow mein? thats only 7 syns on extra easy! little changes make the biggest difference, dont fall into the trap of thinking you cant go out or enjoy yourself to successfully lose weight, yes it will come off quicker if you dont go out, dont drink, dont eat takeaway, dont eat chocolate etc but you would be miserable, so whats the point? its got to be sustainable for when youve lost the weight so you dont reach target then think balls to it and start eating junk again. have a chat with your c and be honest she/he is there to help, you pay for that help hun so use it to your full advantage.

can you tell ive got my head into it this week?? ill be needing a pep talk after mine and hubbys big night out in a week and a half, so dont expect it to last hahaha!

ive started my food diary again and am posting pics of my meals as much as i can, i just replaced the batteries on my camera and theyve gone again, im not impressed!
 
1.2lbs off for me this week so I'm back to the same weight I was a month ago...............I know I shouldn't moan, but this is blood hard work!
 
i know your pain annya, I have had enough at the minute but know i will gain if i stop so that is what i am focusing on now. keep going x
 
well done annya!!! doesnt over 1 pound earn you a place on the naughty step?

dont give up felicity, it will be worth it in the end. just keep chipping away at it hun.

god i hate fridays, never have any food in and i have to work all afternoon without a break so i dont get any dinner, then i have to go to tesco on the way home to get something healthy for tea, by which point im starving and its so hard to resist all the yummy foods!!
 
Well done, acc and Annya.
Had my WI last night too. OMG!! It turns out that I can in fact eat out and choose wisely and have a loss in the same week. After my 2lb gain last week, this week I'm delighted a report a 4lb loss. 4 freaking pounds?! That big loss that I've chased since week 1 has finally turned up. I did a lap of honour around the hall and danced and jumped around. I was so absolutely delighted. However, I got home and in my book it's only been recorded as a 3lb loss. Still blooming amazing though and if I've got an extra 1lb in hand for next week, it almost means I'm guaranteed a loss next week too.
So, I'm now the very proud owner of one of these.... Thought it'd never happen. Green days, how I love you more than you'll ever know!
 
That didn't work, I meant a proud owner of one of these!
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AND I've just noticed, a BMI of 25.1!!!

I'm on the step, I've run there. It's been a hardcore 100% week and I totally credit it to my diary. If you don't do one, start one. It's made all the world of diffrerence to me.
 
I am so pleased for you Hels x

My scales are still showing a gain but it is now about 4 or 5 lbs instead of 8 . I am still not keeping a diary and I need to get back to grips with hexs and syns
 
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