its hard being a woman, hormones are evil, i never suffered until i came off the pill to ttc my second child, since then i cant cope with the pill and i cant cope without it, i dont really know what the answer is tbh but i am considering trying yet another pill just to regulate my periods and i know if i can just get through the first 3 months of symptoms ill be ok, but its the crippling hunger i also cant deal with, every time ive been on the pill ive gained weight. but i cant carry on like this, im up and down all the time. i would love to be able to sort it using herbal remedies, i did used to take agnus castus but i didnt realise your not meant to take it all the time and my periods stopped altogether which brought its own problems. my periods are regulating a bint better, but then every couple of months i have a weird one and it throws me off hormonally...i have some evening primrose and starflower casules i started taking it yesterday along with vitamins as im sick of being ill!! well just tucking into a salad..which is the last thing i want on a day like this but im out for a meal tonight so need to keep cals very low today to compensate...its a steak house so shouldnt be difficult to make good choices..i just had a quick look at the menu and i noticed they do seabass...ive never tried it before so i think ill go for this, no pud obviously, but i am goign to have a glass of red wine. so i just need to sit and work it all out. had a stinker of a night at work last night, one of the guys is bullying me, i thought it was in my head but last night he showed he was..he said something to me that was out of order then when i confronted him in front of everyone he denied it and said i was a liar....so ive got all that crap to deal with now, but im not going to use it as an excuse to binge eat.