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JaneB
getting there slowly
Morning Crumble, not been on for a bit, glad you are back on track with sw and that your DS1 and DIL are moving out shortly, I can't believe the baby is due in 3.5weeks it doesn't seem that long ago that you said that she is pregnant, where does the time go, keep smiling xx
Lily42uk
Gold Member
Hey sweetie, everything comes to those that wait, you're time is coming my lovely, your DIL and Son know the real story, I bet you a week or 2 after the baby is born the outlaws won't be seen anywhere, something similar happened when Kelly had her 1st baby...father in law and mother in law ...divorced from each other but in the competing wars at that time took over, did everything that needed doing and bought everything needed buying when they first got married and had my granddaughter....by the time she was a year old they had f*cked off and have probably visited about a dozen times between them and my granddaughter will be 14 this year...MIL lives on the IOW and has been across 4 times in that 14 years....every excuse under the sun, FIL now lives in Dorset, not a million miles from London but he has been up about half a dozen times in that time too...now both MIL and FIL have pots of money but expect Kelly and Simon ...and only Simon working cos Kelly keeps dislocating her shoulder and has had op after op and still waiting on next one, to go visit them all the time...I think not and so do they..Kelly and Simon that is ...so like I said everything comes to those that wait, My grandchildren don't even know their other grandparents they are Steve and Barbie (can't even remember her name cos that's what she's always been called :giggle
to them and always will be, me and Mal are Nanny and Granddad.
well done for staying calm though hun and well done on 2lb even if it is over 2 weeks..it's a loss hun :hug99: xxx
to them and always will be, me and Mal are Nanny and Granddad.well done for staying calm though hun and well done on 2lb even if it is over 2 weeks..it's a loss hun :hug99: xxx
Lily42uk
Gold Member
Hey sweetie,
Aww bless him, you're poor Son, I hope everything improves rapidly and that his outlaws get exiled to anywhere far enough away to give him some peace :fingerscrossed: not heading for another breakdown, how awful for you ...I have had a breakdown myself and remember how bad I felt, it must have been so scary for my family so I can imagine how hard this is for you hun....It's easier said than done to advise people to stand up and say bug off and leave me alone...oh if only it were that simple.
Thinking of you hun, and wishing, hoping and praying that everything turns out ok :bighug: and lots of love xxxx
Aww bless him, you're poor Son, I hope everything improves rapidly and that his outlaws get exiled to anywhere far enough away to give him some peace :fingerscrossed: not heading for another breakdown, how awful for you ...I have had a breakdown myself and remember how bad I felt, it must have been so scary for my family so I can imagine how hard this is for you hun....It's easier said than done to advise people to stand up and say bug off and leave me alone...oh if only it were that simple.
Thinking of you hun, and wishing, hoping and praying that everything turns out ok :bighug: and lots of love xxxx
tillymax
Gold Member
Oh joy! I'll have to try and contain my excitement when I see the bags arriving.
Hope you're all doing fine.
Haven't lost weight ( well 2lbs in nearly 2 weeks
Have however lost my sense of humour these last few days.
Won't bore with it but I carry a heavy heart when I look at my sons future and it leaves a nasty taste in my mouth.
Why haven't they come up with a means to divorce in-laws but keep your partners?
It'd be a right money-spinner for the legal profession.
My son would pioneer the whole starting process and I'd finance it! :sigh:
Now you'd think I'd be losing weight with worry but ..no... been hitting the midget gems.
Well I'm a little ray of sunshine these days, aren't I?
Sorry.
Normal service will be resumed once DS1 & DIL move out.
(still in as her parents won't let them move in until the house has been fully decorated and has wall to wall down. Naturally only they are capable of doing it as they are clearly perfect. our efforts were scoffed at.
Oh well, I shall keep the paints that DIL chose when I took her shopping and use them in my house, but sticks in my craw that I wasted all that money and they went ahead and took over and magnolia-ed it without consulting them after asking us to stay away as we were too slow.
One weekend and two evenings to sand every bit of paintwork in the house, hang curtain poles and curtains, repairs walls and ceilings and clean the horrible mess up, go out and buy in everything they needed and then gloss all the paintwork and paint one ceiling and one bedroom walls was pretty nifty work and only happened cos a team of mates helped us.
Oppps I'm fuming again, tut tut.
I am a tree, I can bend.
The cheeky *******. I know where I'd have stuck the paint brush
Lily42uk
Gold Member
:bighug: hun you are entitled to rant and rave, the things you've had to put up with only a saint would say nothing, I would be a lot more verbal, even on here, so I applaud you :clap: you're ability to keep calm....but promise me one thing, when you are a alone...in the loo or the bathroom or wherever, that you get it all out cos I know damn well I would....my final word on the subject is .....how very dare they !!!
Glad you are escaping, run for the hills Kimosabe and don't look back :giggle: :hug99: xxxx
Oh and thank god for your friend helping out with DS1, that's a little relief at least xxxx
Glad you are escaping, run for the hills Kimosabe and don't look back :giggle: :hug99: xxxx
Oh and thank god for your friend helping out with DS1, that's a little relief at least xxxx
Lily42uk
Gold Member
Hey hun, when you have a crisis and little money and everything blowing up in your world it's harder to stay on track, s0d it it's bloody hard staying on track when you don't have all those issues, but the good thing about SW is it get's into your head and it stays there, so while you are having those crisis the part of your brain that SW has taken over keeps you as close to the straight and narrow as it can...I bet if you look back and even on your worst days lately, doesn't matter how much you've stuffed, that it's nowhere near as bad as it was pre SW days, cos I know with me it isn't...I put on 9.5lbs over xmas believe me that's not even half what it would have been, I have put on 2st in that time before.
So what I'm trying to say is don't worry about being on plan right now you have enough going on, just be assured that part of the brain that SW has cornered is keeping you close to being on plan.
I too am awful if I don't plan my meals and menu's, I feel like I'm in the desert or in a huge ocean floundering about trying to find my way to shore.
:fingerscrossed: that it's sooner rather than later and you have your home back.
Oh yes I saw that episode of BL...it was awful poor girl, poor DH too....I had what they thought might be a heart attack some years ago, they still don't know what caused it, cos my heart was fine, but I had severe pains and my left arm and hand swelled to about 5 times it's normal size, very scary, they took me in gave me an ECG and all the other tests...the oxygen in the blood was the worst most painful one ....they did it 1st time said this will really hurt...nothing....so i said can't feel it, silly me :giggle:, so they did it again omfg I swear even giving birth was a doddle compared to that pain...instead of going into your vein they put the needle directly into your artery in your wrist to check the oxygen levels....I almost wished I was dead for that half hour it lasted ...my oxygen levels in my blood were very low and they also discovered at that point I had an underactive thyroid, but never came to any conclusion, even though they kept me in for 48 hours, as to why i had the pains and the swelloing, still a mystery to this day, jeez I ramble don't I...I was trying to say, i can sympathise with that and wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy...or maybe I would :8855:
Hope you have a great escape, there's a cue for a film to watch hun :giggle: and that your home returns to you real soon.
Take care lovely :bighug: xxxxx
So what I'm trying to say is don't worry about being on plan right now you have enough going on, just be assured that part of the brain that SW has cornered is keeping you close to being on plan.
I too am awful if I don't plan my meals and menu's, I feel like I'm in the desert or in a huge ocean floundering about trying to find my way to shore.
:fingerscrossed: that it's sooner rather than later and you have your home back.
Oh yes I saw that episode of BL...it was awful poor girl, poor DH too....I had what they thought might be a heart attack some years ago, they still don't know what caused it, cos my heart was fine, but I had severe pains and my left arm and hand swelled to about 5 times it's normal size, very scary, they took me in gave me an ECG and all the other tests...the oxygen in the blood was the worst most painful one ....they did it 1st time said this will really hurt...nothing....so i said can't feel it, silly me :giggle:, so they did it again omfg I swear even giving birth was a doddle compared to that pain...instead of going into your vein they put the needle directly into your artery in your wrist to check the oxygen levels....I almost wished I was dead for that half hour it lasted ...my oxygen levels in my blood were very low and they also discovered at that point I had an underactive thyroid, but never came to any conclusion, even though they kept me in for 48 hours, as to why i had the pains and the swelloing, still a mystery to this day, jeez I ramble don't I...I was trying to say, i can sympathise with that and wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy...or maybe I would :8855:
Hope you have a great escape, there's a cue for a film to watch hun :giggle: and that your home returns to you real soon.
Take care lovely :bighug: xxxxx
Lily42uk
Gold Member
That's exactly how I feel! Perfectly described.
What a horrible procedure.
I think I might drag SIL on SW with me.
I'm not telling her about minimins tho.
Could you imagine?!
I'd have no where to tell tales about my missing 'skinnys' and she'd find out all my hiding places.
If she read back she'd even find out that I played dumb when she couldn't find her nunchuck things when she was after naffing up my body magic by nicking the wii.
No, she doesn't need minimins. She can go find her own friends.
This is all mine.
Brave...what's that? I was so damn cocky, they said it will really hurt, I had it done thought that was a piece of cake they're talking out of their backsides and before I knew it my mouth was open and these damn words were coming out...I can see it now....even as I said them I knew there would be pain involved and lots of it, but I couldn't stop...I get verbal diarrohea
sometimes...oh alright already, all the time...had you noticed? :giggle:Dragging SIL anywhere, great body magic ...how much does she weigh, might try doing that with Mal :8855:
no never ever tell family or friends about MM's we have to have somewhere to slag...ooops I mean vent about them in private :giggle: :hug99: xxx
Lily42uk
Gold Member
SIL's weight is a greatly guarded secret. I'm not sure even she knows.
All I'm saying is is that it wasn't me that broke the leg on my favourite sofa.
And it wasn't me that had to change trousers cos the seam had 'frayed, ' or me that had the zip go on my jeans last weekend.
The rot set in cos she has dinner at work and at home now in the evening. She wasn't so bad till then.
As she's tall like DH (hate her
How have you remained so calm after all that....I would be having a fit :giggle:Definitely get her and all the family eating healthily, I don't let my lot get away with not eating the exact same meals as me, that way I'm not so tempted to stray.
Have a fab weekend hun :hug99: xxxx
valerie11
Gold Member
That's exactly how I feel! Perfectly described.
What a horrible procedure.
I think I might drag SIL on SW with me.
I'm not telling her about minimins tho.
Could you imagine?!
I'd have no where to tell tales about my missing 'skinnys' and she'd find out all my hiding places.
If she read back she'd even find out that I played dumb when she couldn't find her nunchuck things when she was after naffing up my body magic by nicking the wii.
No, she doesn't need minimins. She can go find her own friends.
This is all mine.
ha ha love this crumble i would be exactly the same
hope ur having a good weekend love val xx
JackieN
One day at a time, one step at a time
mmmm very true. I always liked Nanna rather than Granny, Grandma etc ... not sure why but maybe because thats what we called my adorable Nanna
Gosh not long at all then My boys were both 2 weeks early so any day now huni
a green day is a good way to get back into it. Whenever I struggled I always chose a green day
So come on Mrs Crumble you can do this xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Gosh not long at all then
My boys were both 2 weeks early so any day now huni a green day is a good way to get back into it. Whenever I struggled I always chose a green day
So come on Mrs Crumble you can do this
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JackieN
One day at a time, one step at a time
Do you like peanut butter? I didn't think I did but I tried it last week and I've been having one piece of peanut butter on toast for brekkie thinly spread and its so filling then if I feel peckish at ie 4pm I have another slice it might be best to eat little and often the first few weeks to break yourself in gently then that way you are so unlikely to go off plan xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
then if I feel peckish at ie 4pm I have another slice it might be best to eat little and often the first few weeks to break yourself in gently then that way you are so unlikely to go off plan xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
valerie11
Gold Member
JackieN said:Do you like peanut butter? I didn't think I did but I tried it last week and I've been having one piece of peanut butter on toast for brekkie thinly spread and its so filling
Oooh peanut butter with a mashed up banana on top yummy lol
have a good week both of u xx P s hope parsnips r free i always have them on ee and green and dont syn them xx
