Willpower.... where do I find that?!?!?
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Caroline_Louise
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lil_legs said:
Thats dedication girl ;-) x
Caroline_Louise
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haha, still pondering what to eat
Crisps and dip, ummmmmmmmmmmm x
lil_legs
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Girls i need some advice.. this is gonna be a long post!!
Last year i was (well i thought i was!) seeing this boy, we never actually went on a date but he would come down and watch dvds and we would *cough!* haha. anyway we were all out in our local and halfway through the night he swans in with some other girl! we had a big argument and he said we werent together etc. anyway that was that we didnt speak for a while but then talked when we saw each other out. i deleted his number etc
then a few months ago one night i was having missed calls and texts but i didnt know who it was til i asked and it was him, he was saying he wanted another chance and he wasnt ready for anything last year but is now etc. i told him where to go (plus i was seeing my ex then!) saw him out a few times and he would always stare but that was that.
after i came back from hols he was talking to me on fb then started texting me randomly.. the next night we were all out and he kept talking to me. as the night went on he wanted to buy me a drink so we had a chat and i wiped the floor with him saying what a knob he was last year etc and he wanted to take me out and give him a chance but i said no your a creep lol. the drunker i got then the drunker i got, the cockier i got - texting him saying stupid things like im standing her without a drink theres something wrong with this picture.. anyway to cut a long story short he ended up coming home with me that night! oops
now last sun he was texting me a bit starting with "nice tattoo" etc (when he could of just written on my wall). same thing today and he asked what my plans were tonight - i made something up lol.
now i may just be reading into this and he may not ask or suggest anything again but if he does do i just go with an open mind and have fun or do i stand my ground lol x
Last year i was (well i thought i was!) seeing this boy, we never actually went on a date but he would come down and watch dvds and we would *cough!* haha. anyway we were all out in our local and halfway through the night he swans in with some other girl! we had a big argument and he said we werent together etc. anyway that was that we didnt speak for a while but then talked when we saw each other out. i deleted his number etc
then a few months ago one night i was having missed calls and texts but i didnt know who it was til i asked and it was him, he was saying he wanted another chance and he wasnt ready for anything last year but is now etc. i told him where to go (plus i was seeing my ex then!) saw him out a few times and he would always stare but that was that.
after i came back from hols he was talking to me on fb then started texting me randomly.. the next night we were all out and he kept talking to me. as the night went on he wanted to buy me a drink so we had a chat and i wiped the floor with him saying what a knob he was last year etc and he wanted to take me out and give him a chance but i said no your a creep lol. the drunker i got then the drunker i got, the cockier i got - texting him saying stupid things like im standing her without a drink theres something wrong with this picture.. anyway to cut a long story short he ended up coming home with me that night! oops
now last sun he was texting me a bit starting with "nice tattoo" etc (when he could of just written on my wall). same thing today and he asked what my plans were tonight - i made something up lol.
now i may just be reading into this and he may not ask or suggest anything again but if he does do i just go with an open mind and have fun or do i stand my ground lol x
MissieCB
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lil_legs said:
I think if u like him u can only mug him off so much before he moves on and he will get bored?! Depends how much u like him and if ur prepared to just take each day blah blah blah xxx
He seems to have paid the price!
Xxxx
Going with ur heart sometimes is good
sometime u get burned its life and I'm the foray one to say!!!! Xxx
lil_legs
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I think if u like him u can only mug him off so much before he moves on and he will get bored?! Depends how much u like him and if ur prepared to just take each day blah blah blah xxx
He seems to have paid the price!
Xxxx
Going with ur heart sometimes is good
yeah i dont think it'd ever turn into something because i am wary of him but if an opportunity rises its only a bit of fun? x
Caroline_Louise
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Evening all, mrs pie face is back from the gym! I appear to have missed loads, including kebabs!! Missie btw i am now taking a leaf/tree out of ur book. Me and lil legs ARE BEING GOOD TOMORROW!!
Now, lil legs...people can change, unusual but t happens. Depends how much u like this guy as missie says, if u leave it too long he may go off with someone else. On the other hand, i would hate for u to invest emotions in him( it is def easier said than done to 'have fun' with someone, women def built differently to men in that respect!) if u think u can handle the consequences i'd say go for it, do ur err, *coughing* and see what happens. A bit of attention is gd for the ego, but believe me baby girl u will be getting a lot more of that these days with ur sexy new bod and the new confidence that WILL come with it eventually. Ul probs end up deciding u dont even want him after a bit!
Have i helped at all?! No, didnt think so! No gd asking the girl who got off with a frenchman and is now considering internet dating!! Cxx
Now, lil legs...people can change, unusual but t happens. Depends how much u like this guy as missie says, if u leave it too long he may go off with someone else. On the other hand, i would hate for u to invest emotions in him( it is def easier said than done to 'have fun' with someone, women def built differently to men in that respect!) if u think u can handle the consequences i'd say go for it, do ur err, *coughing* and see what happens. A bit of attention is gd for the ego, but believe me baby girl u will be getting a lot more of that these days with ur sexy new bod and the new confidence that WILL come with it eventually. Ul probs end up deciding u dont even want him after a bit!
Have i helped at all?! No, didnt think so! No gd asking the girl who got off with a frenchman and is now considering internet dating!! Cxx
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