ProPoints Azwethinkweiz (Sarah)s new food diary!

Well usually people don't need to tell you that they are going to make you feel good they will just do it without a prompt, I know that it seems hard but you will be ok believe me just give it time
 
Sarah you've said it yourself, he isn't good for you, you are worth 10 of him. Just see the relationship for what it is. We all have these shitty relationships, this one was yours! As the girls say, dust yourself off and look after yourself for a while. You don't need a man to feel good about yourself, and one should definately not make you feel bad about yourself. xxx
 
Soon as the next guy who comes round tells you how gorgeous and perfect you are ......... he'll be forgotten ........... I know you had a long time with your ex but noone deserves the mental abuse he gave you ... look at you now, your obviously not happy with yourself, only because he highlighted your flaws .... someone who is suppose to love you unconditionally doesnt make a person feel that way xxxxxx
 
Sarah, you get men who grind women down like this, they see it as a big power trip. It's emotional abuse, if he's like this now what would he be like in 2-3 years down the line...................you would feel even worse no self esteem you'd feel awful. You honestly are best off without him, the reason he hasn't bothered contacting you is because he's waiting for you to contact him! It's another power thing.
You are brilliant, clever, witty, strong beautiful and you really don't need this phsyco in your life.
Honestly I'm talking from experience, not my own but I've worked with women who've suffered domestic violence and although he's not been physically abusive he is messing with your head and making you feel crap.
Your not crap!!!!!!

I'm so sorry if this seems harsh and tell me if I'm out of line but I suffer the same sort of emotional issues as you so I know how low you can feel and I'm angry coz you need people to pick you up, not put you down and make you feel lower.

xxx
 
Just... Its so close to Christmas too. Presents for him under my tree. My sister thinks we'll sort it out and be back together but he hasn't even tried. Tracy, you might be right about him expecting me to contact him. But I'm not going to. He was in the wrong and should make the effort but he hasn't which says it all to me. Feeling very sad and lonely now.

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Oh I hate it there is nothing any one can say but honestly you will be ok drop te presents off or send them back get the money and go shopping ha ha
 
Sorry to hear about your break up Sarah but i have to second what all the other girls have said, you deserve sooooooo much better! SELL THE PRESENTS and treat yourself to some more fab SIZE 12 clothes :):):) take care lovelyxxxxx
 
It makes me really sad to think of having to unwrap and bring back all these presents.

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Put the presents in the back of ter wardrobe with all the clothes that no longer fit ta coz ya'v cum so far n done do well. Then if ya sort it out, they're there n u don't need to worry about gettin more. N if it comes that it's the beginning of new chapter to ur life in the new year then ya'll b stronger n it'll b less raw so ya can return them all then. N buy more hott size 12 top shop jeans :D
Text if ya need chats xxx
 
Yes take them to a friends or something it's not something you need to deal with right now, I had my wedding dress at a friends for 6 months after my break up (unused wedding dress) I think keep busy is the best advice I can give. And deal with that sort of stuff when you feel ready and only you will know when
 
Yeah ye are probably right. There's still bloody things in the post for him yet to arrive too. Irritating as hell.

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Sarah the girls have said it all. I feel your pain and it doesnt matter what anyone else says or does time is the only thing that helps. Think of the new year, new you. In the meantime scream, cry, rant and rave to your hearts content xxx
 
Ahh sarah, I'm so sorry to hear ur bad news. To b honest tho, like all the girls hav said I don't think ur fella was gud enuf for u!! Don't really know u but u sound beautiful inside and out and nobody shud make u feel the way he has. Try to get a gud nite sleep. Go to work tom wiv ur head held high and show him wot he's missin xxxx
 
I'm really trying to be strong here but I just feel terrible. Really terrible.

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azwethinkweiz said:
I'm really trying to be strong here but I just feel terrible. Really terrible.

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Nite times the hardest hun. Try put it out of yer head n sleep. Count sheep r try count to a million. Anything to occupy yer mind... Thinkin of ya babe xxx
 
Dubchick81 said:
Nite times the hardest hun. Try put it out of yer head n sleep. Count sheep r try count to a million. Anything to occupy yer mind... Thinkin of ya babe xxx
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I'll try. Its like random bursts of tears if that makes sense?
Thinking of you too, hope you'll be ok tomorrow hon. Sending hugs for you ((((hugs)))) xXx

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I broke up with my ex on 16th December 4 years ago I thought he was my love, and I was devastated. Now I look back and think I am so glad that happened as I'd it hasn't of I wouldnt be so happy and in love with my OH living together.

Although he made you feel down and like you had to change yourself your only human and you are going to be sad and miss him but just think of 2012 as your year!!

Tomorrow will be the hardest day probs as you will have to see him for first time since break up in work but just think once you see him the worst is over and you can focus on moving on.

You deserve a guy who makes you feel confident and happy in your own skin not who makes you feel you have to change and mould yourself to try and live up to an expectation which is something you don't want to be! I mean guys want girls to be like "skinny and blonde and pretty with the hourglass figure" but who wants to be that!! You are a smart, lovely girl who has so much going for them and you will get over this and look back and think wow what a lucky escape!

Here for you of you need to vent! Hugs xxx
 
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