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woooooop woooooooooop well done you!! enjoy the pub and have a lovely treat night, much deserved :D
 
Well done for brill loss :) xx
 
Well done sweetie! Hope u enjoyed the defo deserved drinkies xxx
 
Thank you girlies :D


Sorry I've been a bit awol this weekend, I had a major horrible hangover yesterday morning and once I felt better I ended up eating allll day long, loads of rubbish but I'm back on track today. Had a bit of a crappy night on Saturday, went out with my mates I went to Uni with and ended up having a massive argument with one of them :( I have not had a disagreement with a friend since I was a bout 10, so I'm still feeling pretty upset about it. She got the face on with me and my other friend because we wanted to go home from town and she thought it was too early (early being 2am, which in my book isn't early) Then went on a massive hissy fit, like a child stomping her foot and spitting her dummy out.. saying that we are crap, never want to stay out late and get drunk and that we're all old before our time :mad: so angry. She is a really horrible drunk which I think is part of her tantrum. She is just so selfish and thinks about herself all the time, she doesn't understand we have other priorities. I can't always stay out late cos I'm tired from work or skint as I'm saving for my future, my other friend has just got married and the other.. who didn't make it out as not too well, had a liver transplant a few years ago so really has to look after herself. But the girl in question has a pretty easy going job, is single and has had everything handed out on a plate to her by her parents (they pay her rent and give her money to spend every month :eek:) 'Spoilt brat syndrome' springs to mind!!!!!

She ended up having a massive spiteful rant on facebook about us saying how she wants to find new friends, I'm so angry and upset it's untrue. She did apologise to me and my friend yesterday but says she still think she's in the right. She doesn't just want to catch up by going for a meal or bowling, or just to the pub, she's not happy if we don't stay out till 5 in the morning. get hammered and show off and flirt with men, then ending up in a ditch somewhere!!! Perhaps I am old before my time, I'm just not bothered about getting in that state. I do love a drink and enjoy going out but I don't want to always be staying out that late, especially with a selfish petulant child. I've bitten my tongue for a long time over the years when she's been a horrid drunk and some of her other friends have fallen out with her! My other friend is furious with her and my friend who didn't make it out is also very angry. I don't know what it is but recently as I'm getting older, I just don't let people walk all over me, and have started standing up for myself. I don't want to fall out with her cos she is a good friend when she's sober. but last night I realised how selfish she is! If she doesn't realise how selfish she is being and goes off like that again she is going to end up losing us as friends. Just don't know what to do :( Omg sorry I didn't realise how much I'm ranting lol.... just it's been really getting to me, and it's been bothering me while I'm working! Just need to get off my chest lol. Feel like I'm being such a drama queen ranting about this, but I've never had a friend go off at me like that, she didn't care I was in tears at all. You really realise who your real friends are as you get older!!!!! Haha all this just wants to make me eat chocolate nooooo... Sorry for being such a drama queen, I'm not really!! Hope everyone is good xxxxxxxx
 
blimey you have been through it this weekend! one thing occurred to me while reading that....the word "friend"... in my honest opinion, the way your "friend" behaved means that she really is NOT a friend at all. I know i dont really KNOW you, not personally, but from what ive read on here ( where I 100% believe that most people are more honest on here than in real life) you seem like a really lovely, genuinely kind and sweet lady....and that "friend" doesnt deserve you...end of!! I do agree that as we get older we tend to speak our minds more and not let ppl walk over us so much..ive spent years being a doormat...and never again!
Dont cave in to the choccy craving...dont let her be the cause of more uspet for you :) Keep smiling!!
 
Breakfast
Banana 1.5
100ml fresh orange juice 1


Dinner
2 small seeded batch bread 2
Light spread 0.5
Chicken 0.5
Activia yoghurt 1
Choc and mint special k bar 1.5


Tea
Pasta 4
Tomato and basil sauce 1.5
Mushrooms, brocolli 0
Crunchie 4


Drinks and snacks
Milk for hot drinks 2
2 party rings 2
Small apple 0.5


22/25
 
Dinx said:
blimey you have been through it this weekend! one thing occurred to me while reading that....the word "friend"... in my honest opinion, the way your "friend" behaved means that she really is NOT a friend at all. I know i dont really KNOW you, not personally, but from what ive read on here ( where I 100% believe that most people are more honest on here than in real life) you seem like a really lovely, genuinely kind and sweet lady....and that "friend" doesnt deserve you...end of!! I do agree that as we get older we tend to speak our minds more and not let ppl walk over us so much..ive spent years being a doormat...and never again!
Dont cave in to the choccy craving...dont let her be the cause of more uspet for you :) Keep smiling!!
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Ahhh thanks soo much Dinx :) that's really sweet of you!! I'm so happy you think that, your definitely right, she is no friend at all. I think she has used my niceness in the past to walk all over me and be a pain in the a**e but def started standing up for myself more now, don't think she liked it haha. I didn't realise that my other friend who was poorly and didn't come out, was actually really pissed off with her because of something else similar which happened a month or so back, so think she's really blown it!! Sad but, can't let people walk all over you. I have a lot of very good friends, so that's all that matters. She did apologise to us yesterday morning, but still think she's in the right!!!!! I want her to realise she wasn't, maybe when nobody wants to talk to her she might get the message. xxxxx
 
Aww hun sorry u've had such a rubbish time with ur friend :( i've had the very same thing happen to me recently, only my 'friend' just decided she had other friends that were better than me and dropped me like a lead balloon lol!! I know how u must be feeling, hurt, and constantly thinking about it, because i'm exactly the same...but ur right in what you say, as u get older you really don't give a stuff! and u should never let anyone walk all over you! it sounds like she was SO unreasonable! and alcohol in the equation doesnt help! Try not let it get to you, it sounds like u have plenty of other friends :) and u have us on here :) it sounds like she needs to grow up! or stop drinking so much that she goes off her nut!!

Hope ur okay hun, and remember u are worth so much more than silly arguments :)
 
Nicola87 said:
Aww hun sorry u've had such a rubbish time with ur friend :( i've had the very same thing happen to me recently, only my 'friend' just decided she had other friends that were better than me and dropped me like a lead balloon lol!! I know how u must be feeling, hurt, and constantly thinking about it, because i'm exactly the same...but ur right in what you say, as u get older you really don't give a stuff! and u should never let anyone walk all over you! it sounds like she was SO unreasonable! and alcohol in the equation doesnt help! Try not let it get to you, it sounds like u have plenty of other friends :) and u have us on here :) it sounds like she needs to grow up! or stop drinking so much that she goes off her nut!!

Hope ur okay hun, and remember u are worth so much more than silly arguments :)
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Thank you so much hun :)!!! Don't know what I'd do without you guys, you're all ace. I'm so sorry about your 'friend' too, it's awful isn't it. Can't understand how some people can be so awful and selfish. Hope you're feeling better now too. My 'friend' def needs to grow and stop the drinking!! Drinking can cause so much agro and upset, if people can't handle it they should stay well clear of it. I will try and not let it get to me, feel better already thanks. Hope you're having a lovely day xxxxxx
 
Hugs! "friends" like those suck! I have a few! We kno we are worth better that this! U are lovely kind, funny, friendly and fun! Don't let her bring u down sweetie! Xx
 
Hope ur feeling better today :) just remember, we are strong women! and we won't be walked all over ! :girlpower: xxx
 
Nicola87 said:
Hope ur feeling better today :) just remember, we are strong women! and we won't be walked all over ! :girlpower: xxx
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Hey sweety! I'm feeling soo much better today thanks, :) Yayy girl power indeedy! We are strong amazing women. Not going to let that silly moo walk over me anymore!! Hope you're having a lovely day xxxxxxx
 
Hi hun
Bless u x
Alcohol can do bad things to ppl x sorry to hear of ur troubles sweetie! X going on FB ranting is not friendly! Im glad I don't do FB!

Hope ur feeling ok about it all x
Don't let her effect ur great weight loss!
X
 
Wishbird007 said:
Hi hun
Bless u x
Alcohol can do bad things to ppl x sorry to hear of ur troubles sweetie! X going on FB ranting is not friendly! Im glad I don't do FB!

Hope ur feeling ok about it all x
Don't let her effect ur great weight loss!
X
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Thanks hunny :) Hope you're well? I know alcohol can really send some people loopy. Oh god yeh fb can cause a lot of trouble, people will say things they regret. Nightmare. Thanks hun, I'm feeling much better now. She is indeed a silly wench xxxxxxx
 
Hey minimates!! How you doing? Wow been a busy day today. Kind of like it tho as again the week is flying by, can't believe it's Thursday tomorrow woop! Anyhoo food -

Breakfast
Branflakes with milk 2.5
100ml fresh orange juice 1


Dinner
2 seeded batch bread 3
Chicken and light spread 1
ww yoghurt 1
Kellogs spoecial k bar 1.5



Tea
Chicken and mushroom risotto 7
Brocolli 0
Asda wirly bar 2.5


Drinks and snacks
Milk for hot drinks 2
Short bread 2


23.5/25
 
Diary looks good :) hugs x
 
Looking good sweet x
 
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