Born obese , Tomorrow is my New Dawn
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Animagus
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Poor Von - I do sympathise x
Purple Patsy
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Hate those pains. Hope it eases soon. 
Kay003
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Aww Von hun, (((big hugs))) , I hope your in bed resting with a nice hot water bottle, a cuppa and have taken some painkillers.
Hope your feeling much better soon lovely.Kay xx
mariavon
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Pains seem easier at the moment ,
Had a horrible day yesterday cried almost the whole day ,
Some months I get so down I can't shake it off , I pick arguments over nothing , I can hear myself but can't stop it , yesterday was like that I argued wiv OH over nothing I can't even tell you what it was , anything and everything , to the effect that I was packing my bags and going home and said I wasn't coming back,
God knows how the hell I was going to get everything home I'd got 4 big bags and still wasn't everything , he told me to put it all back he doesn't really argue , which is prob a good thing , but we didn't speak all day we were in separate rooms , I got on one again at 8.30 ish got dressed and walked out went to train station sat deciding wether to stay or go , I'd not taken anything wiv me but I didn't care , he came looking for me found me bout 9.30 told me come home wiv him, was still quiet remainder if night,
Things seem ok this morning , I'm feeling stupid and embarrassed to be honest ,
I need to see if I can get anything from health shop to help wiv this ,
He doesn't deserve this ,
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Had a horrible day yesterday cried almost the whole day ,
Some months I get so down I can't shake it off , I pick arguments over nothing , I can hear myself but can't stop it , yesterday was like that I argued wiv OH over nothing I can't even tell you what it was , anything and everything , to the effect that I was packing my bags and going home and said I wasn't coming back,
God knows how the hell I was going to get everything home I'd got 4 big bags and still wasn't everything , he told me to put it all back he doesn't really argue , which is prob a good thing , but we didn't speak all day we were in separate rooms , I got on one again at 8.30 ish got dressed and walked out went to train station sat deciding wether to stay or go , I'd not taken anything wiv me but I didn't care , he came looking for me found me bout 9.30 told me come home wiv him, was still quiet remainder if night,
Things seem ok this morning , I'm feeling stupid and embarrassed to be honest ,
I need to see if I can get anything from health shop to help wiv this ,
He doesn't deserve this ,
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Animagus
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Pains seem easier at the moment ,
Had a horrible day yesterday cried almost the whole day ,
Some months I get so down I can't shake it off , I pick arguments over nothing , I can hear myself but can't stop it , yesterday was like that I argued wiv OH over nothing I can't even tell you what it was , anything and everything , to the effect that I was packing my bags and going home and said I wasn't coming back,
God knows how the hell I was going to get everything home I'd got 4 big bags and still wasn't everything , he told me to put it all back he doesn't really argue , which is prob a good thing , but we didn't speak all day we were in separate rooms , I got on one again at 8.30 ish got dressed and walked out went to train station sat deciding wether to stay or go , I'd not taken anything wiv me but I didn't care , he came looking for me found me bout 9.30 told me come home wiv him, was still quiet remainder if night,
Things seem ok this morning , I'm feeling stupid and embarrassed to be honest ,
I need to see if I can get anything from health shop to help wiv this ,
He doesn't deserve this ,
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Oh Von - I'm so sorry you are having such a tough time, bl**dy hormones are a menace. I know what you mean about seeing yourself behaving like that and knowing why you are doing it but not being able to stop, it's hideous. I get very down at TOTM not angry thankfully, but at the moment cos I'm pre menopausal I never know when it's going to happen, I'm so irregular. Have you been to the Docs about it? Or you could ask a friendly pharmacist for advice, some pharmacies carry alternative medicines and they may be able to suggest something. I think as long as you OH knows why you are like this, he will just wait it out until you are more yourself, he sounds like a lovely patient chap, just give him a hug when you can and I'm sure it will be okay xx
bubble77
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Awwwww hun, Im feeling you right now. Don't be mad with yourself please. OH must love you to bits he wouldn't come chasing. Try some vitamin B6 tablets perhaps, or have a word with the helth shop, not just anyone from holland and barret they don't usually know a lot. Maybe they can give you an idea of something natural to try.
Good luck with things today, don't be hard on yourself have a chat and a cuddle later tell him he doesn't deserve it if that what you feel, wear your heart on your sleeve. You'll get through this month. xxx big hug xxx
Good luck with things today, don't be hard on yourself have a chat and a cuddle later tell him he doesn't deserve it if that what you feel, wear your heart on your sleeve. You'll get through this month. xxx big hug xxx
Auburn
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Awww V... Big hippy hugs from me, I know the feeling, I told Biker to eff off last night too, and thats not fair..
I used to take Kalms, the night time ones. They do daytime ones too, which I honestly dont know if they do any good, or if they are a placebo, but they worked for me. That, and Bach's Rescue Remedy. Two drops of that on your tongue and a 5 minute session of controlled breathing, and I felt way better. Infact, I need to get some more Bachs I think.
Just check the labels, see if there are any conflicts if you are taking anything else. You can take both of those with the contraceptive pill (some herbal things clash with this), and I take Sertraline for my OCD which is fine with it too. Not sure with painkillers or other meds, if you have any..
Hope the Boots dude can give you some advice xxx
I used to take Kalms, the night time ones. They do daytime ones too, which I honestly dont know if they do any good, or if they are a placebo, but they worked for me. That, and Bach's Rescue Remedy. Two drops of that on your tongue and a 5 minute session of controlled breathing, and I felt way better. Infact, I need to get some more Bachs I think.
Just check the labels, see if there are any conflicts if you are taking anything else. You can take both of those with the contraceptive pill (some herbal things clash with this), and I take Sertraline for my OCD which is fine with it too. Not sure with painkillers or other meds, if you have any..
Hope the Boots dude can give you some advice xxx
Purple Patsy
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I was also going to suggest B vitamins. I swear by H & B Bcomplex sublingual drops as it's supposed to be absorbed better than tabs, cost about £7.50 but is usually in hte penny sale or the half price offers. OH sounds lovely and understanding though and seems to know you well enough to realise it's just them bleddy hormones.
mariavon
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It's awful jen , I told mine that as well amonst the other abuse ,
He gone work now but I need to appologise I feel so bad ,
Didn't get anywhere at boots, coz in waiting for surgery they won't recommend any at the moment , I didn't get to h & b , but I will try tomorrow see if the drops are suitable ,
Thanks xxxx
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mariavon
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I was also going to suggest B vitamins. I swear by H & B Bcomplex sublingual drops as it's supposed to be absorbed better than tabs, cost about £7.50 but is usually in hte penny sale or the half price offers. OH sounds lovely and understanding though and seems to know you well enough to realise it's just them bleddy hormones.
Thanks patsy , I will ask bout them tomorrow see if it ok wiv waiting for surgery ,
I suppose he can put his hard hat away for another month now,
Thanks Hun xxx
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Kay003
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Awww Von, big hugs :bighug:, sorry you had a crappy day yesterday hun and things were bad between you and your OH. I hope the dust has settled now and your feeling better today . I'm sure he understands, he's been with you a while and it was so sweet of him to go after you. I think as women we all have moments like that when we feel sensitive around the people we love the most. I have blared at my family many times around the TOTM, me harmones get the better of me, my family just laughs when I yell I think they know to ignore it now. Anyway I'm sure you'll both move forward from this and I hope you have a lovely evening together.
For the tabs hun I would also recommend vitamin b complex, its really good for relaxing the nerves, I take them all the time and I think they will be fine to have before your op. How did you manage with foodage yesterday hun ? Did u make anything yummy ?
Kay xx
. I'm sure he understands, he's been with you a while and it was so sweet of him to go after you. I think as women we all have moments like that when we feel sensitive around the people we love the most. I have blared at my family many times around the TOTM, me harmones get the better of me, my family just laughs when I yell I think they know to ignore it now. Anyway I'm sure you'll both move forward from this and I hope you have a lovely evening together.For the tabs hun I would also recommend vitamin b complex, its really good for relaxing the nerves, I take them all the time and I think they will be fine to have before your op. How did you manage with foodage yesterday hun ? Did u make anything yummy ?
Kay xx
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