Busybusy
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Thank you sweetie - with the support here it WILL happen
I'm so pleased you did that, hun - it's really important to get all the facts so you can make a clear decision about what to do next. Your Oh sounds very controlling (like my dad) and that in itself can be hugely scary - but that's what they intend. I used to go along with it just for an easy life, ditto my mum, but I used to picture it as him being the death star and I was Luke Skywalker, the rebel fighting to get away from that control .
Arm yourself with all the facts, and remember that this is all about working for a better future for yourself and your kids xxx
And I really wouldn't worry about the pizza - you've drawn a line under it, and knowing you you'll be lifting kettle bells in your sleep xxx
Thanks so suse xx. Your so very tough with everything you've been through. Made me smile about you as Luke sw. Although that was your coping mechanism, your story is making realise even more what effect things must be having on my boys.
I have a confession it wasn't just the pizza, as I'd broken diet I thought deck it and went a bit berserk the rest of day. Lol. Hoping being naughty and getting some baddies in my system may help me in some way . I have just done my kettlebells though.